#relationshipmess

I don’t post on here a lot, mainly just reblogging.

However, I have come to my tumblr peers in great need!

I am a very calm person who enjoys taking the high road on things. I don’t have time for drama.

My current boyfriend and I have been together since September and talking since JUNE. We’ve hit it off and are very happy.

Why do I need help you ask?

His ex.

We were all friends when the broke up (I had know my boyfriend longer that I’d know her) and she’s very drama oriented.

Now that I am with her ex, I receive a lot of backlash from her and her friends, but as previously stated, I enjoy the high road.

However,

I recently noticed that she unfriended me on Facebook (AGAIN) for the 1,000th Time.

I reached out to her to make sure it wasn’t over something I had no knowledge of. (People like to keep the pot stirred.)

We talked and she explained that she just needed to distance herself.

I wished her luck, told her I was here if she needed to talk, and understood completely, exhibiting no signs of being upset (because I wasn’t.) This happened last night.

So she messaged a good friend of my boyfriend’s today and said that her (the ex) and I got into a fight and that it was because she unfriended me. She said I got “butthurt”.

Now, that was further from the truth so I sent screenshots of the whole conversation just to more or less show that I wasn’t angry or upset.

So the friend tells her she saw the screenshots and she doesn’t see where I was mad and the ex goes into a rant about how her and my boyfriend had been broken up for a year (but they broke up last May) and he’s still meddling in her life.

My question to you, my friends, is what do I do? How should I react? This is also not the first time she (the ex) has done something of this nature or given someone false/exaggerated information.

How do I stop this so I can move on with my life?

I have a happy relationship. I just want the drama filled ex out of my life.