#wedding asks

Thank you so much!!! It felt very very magical!! Professional photos aren't in yet but my mother in law took a VERY good one with her phone!

hi! i flip flop on the idea of leo and piper getting married (and if they do, it’s definitely a courthouse wedding) but i’ve had piper’s wedding dress in my head for over a decade

i have sort of two different ideas for what her dress looks like. the first is a simple dress she buys from like anthropologie for $50 and is very comfortable

in my head the lace has a pinkish tint to it.

the second dress which is more of one i see her getting if they have a traditional wedding is a mishmash of these two

Of course! <3 These will all be for my tav, Morrigan, and Gale

Wedding, or something else? Wedding! Morrigan never actually had any particularly strong feelings about marriage previously. Her parents were poly and weren't married to each other or their other partners, certainly not in any official capacity, and it was never a big, important thing within her druid circle. It seemed potentially nice, something that had its place, but not a necessity or something she thought about much. However, when Gale proposed she said yes without hesitation. She'd never been a Romantic TM like he is, but she realized she really liked the idea of declaring their love and dedication in some sort of formalized way. Plus it was clearly important to him, and she's always happy to do what makes him happy.

The night before The night before they're both giddy with excitement. Gale briefly (and somewhat reluctantly) floated the idea of sleeping separately and not seeing each other until the ceremony, but Morrigan wasn't interested, saying that she saw no point in spending that time apart leading up to a ceremony specifically dedicated to them choosing to spend their lives together. Gale was only too happy to agree, so they spent the afternoon making final preparations, and that night lying in bed, grinning like the smitten fools they are, trading kisses and words of excitement. Gale has a couple bouts of nervousness - as usual he wants everything to be perfect - but Morrigan is there to remind him that as long as they're both there, the wedding happens, and people have fun, then that's a success. Neither of them gets as much sleep as they probably should, but the wedding will be in the evening so they have some time to sleep in, and it's worth it to spend those extra late-night hours enjoying their mutual excitement.

AAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

My thoughts are that I’m fucking stoked to be married to this man! I’m currently losing my shit watching all of his episodes like

HIM! HIM! HIM! MY HUSBAND!

He so doting and dramatic and romantic and I am just so overjoyed that he lets me be a part of his life, let lone love me back so much???? I’m literally on the verge of tears right now? I’m gonna actually read my vows out loud to him in a bit and I’m losing my mind.

I just know this cocky asshole is going to be the best husband ever and I can’t believe how fucking lucky I am.

And the thing is, we’ve kinda already been married since awhile ago because while we were stranded alone on Elysium I was like “We’re married now” and we promised to be with each other forever, but it like wasn’t much of a wedding considering it was just us so we’re doing it again, legally, with everyone we love there!!!!! And this time he proposed to me!!! It was in the middle of a firefight but that okay it was very dramatic and very much like him to wait until we’re under threat of death to be like “Hey you should be my wife in the eyes of your people too probably” lolololol I said yes obv and the rest of SG-1 is like

You wanna adopt me?? 😲

Well, you gotta adopt me and Juza as a pair for sure!! There's no way I'd be separated from my brother for that long! I'd probably die!! 😤

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... 'S cool. You said sweets every day?

- Juza

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Haha~ well, what's one or two more? They're all good kids. ♡

- Omi :-) 🍁

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Oh, wow! Now Juchan and Kyuchan and I would all be together! ^///^

Thanks, mom! ♡

Hi thank you so much for asking! 💖💕

I’ll go ahead and answer the first few questions, sans the traditions because I don’t have an answer for that one. :D

Blue thistle: What do your apprentice and their LI wear at your wedding? Feel free to provide pictures of wedding attire they would wear!

Ohhh this is a fun one! I don’t have Cassius’ wedding charm finished so I’ll try to answer this the best I can with what I have <3 

Julian would wear what he’s got for his wedding charm, which I think is really darling and cute, and Cassius has his mashup between the typical male and female Chinese-based wedding attire. 

Since I don’t have it colored, I’ll elaborate on my plans for Cass’ outfit, if that’s cool? 

So the basis of it is I took what I liked and I mashed it all together lol. Traditionally, the dresses are red, but I’m thinking of making his white to fit with the theme everyone else has. 

Based on these with his own flare added (see: the sleeves), lol. Hope that gives a clearer image! 

Peony: Who proposed? How did the proposal go?

Cassius proposed, actually! It just felt right (and Julian was taking too long). He dragged Julian into the forest, into the meadow with the pretty willow tree and purple flowers, kisses him and got on one knee, brought out the ring, and signed “marry me.” Julian agreed, and they both cried in each others’ arms, and it was a very pure, soft moment. 

Daffodil: What does your apprentice and their LI’s wedding rings look like?

Ohhhhh okay! Lemme go see if I can find what’s in my head. 

Something like this for Julian: 

And something like this for Cassius: 

They wanted the rings to match ; u ; 

🎨 - What are the wedding colors you and your F/O decided on? 

Atsushi: Ah, that’s a tough one to be honest. I just let my wife decide since we both have very different opinions on color schemes. *laughs* She likes pastels, but I’m more into neutral or metallic colors like brown and silver. 

Me: So we met in the middle and did softer colors such as light gold, silver, purple and pink for our wedding’s color scheme! And it definitely seemed to work! 😊 

Atsushi: Yeah, yeah! It definitely looks good, but please don’t ever let me decide the schemes. My wife is better at that stuff than I am please! 😆 

👗-What kind of wedding dress or suit did you and your F/O get? Give an explanation or show a picture. 

Me: For my wedding dress, I went with a classic romantic trumpet dress shape with beads and lacy long sleeves with a back outline. It has bits of champagne pearls around the corset part of the dress. I also have a flower crown tiara with a mantilla veil to complete the piece. A little traditional, I know, but I love it. It outlines my body in the perfect shape and it doesn’t make me look too bad.

Atsushi: What are you talking about? You’re already perfect to me sweetie. Your dress just makes you even more beautiful than you are already. Don’t you dare talk yourself down in front of me! *fake pouts* 

Ah anyways, the suit I had was one Dazai-san suggested to me when we were suit shopping before the wedding. He suggested I go for a white tux with a black bowtie and grey undershirt and pants. I’m not too good at fashion detail, so I just went with what he said. *chuckles* But I like it, it really shows off the best of myself too. It’s fitting, but comfortable. The suit was just right, so I thank Dazai-san for suggesting it! 😊 👍 

💕-Who said “I love you first”, you or your F/O? 

Atsushi: Well, I did say it first actually. Truth be told, it was a very dark time when I did so. Christina just lost someone close to her on one of our failed missions from the Armed Detective Agency, and it completely devastated her. So much that she was willing to take a dark route (suicide) because she felt like no one here cared for her. I couldn’t let that happen. I kind of—no I did cry when I found out about it and refused to leave her alone. I told her I loved her without thinking, and it left her in shock. At the time she wasn’t ready to confess yet, but she did tell me she would give this relationship a chance. And I’m glad she did, for I found the love of my life in her. 💕 💞 

💒- Are you two getting married outside or inside a certain place? 

Me: Well, we’ve been thinking for a while about having an outdoor wedding celebration. However, we didn’t know where to pick the venue. Then my husband Atsushi gave me a random idea. 

Atsushi: Yes, and I asked her if she would like to go to Fukuzawa’s cherry blossom park? It was privately owned by the Armed Detective Agency, and it might be a great wedding venue. So we walked around the park a couple hours, and she fell in love with the idea right away. More than anything, she loves seeing cherry blossoms bloom around, even if it wasn’t springtime. 

Me: It looked so beautiful there, and I absolutely thought it was the best choice for our outdoor venue. It looked so gorgeous with even with the homemade pink and purple paper lanterns me and the agency created ourselves. I owe my thanks to my husband for suggesting this park to me, for it made the best memories of our lives now. *kisses his cheek*

Atsushi: You’re welcome sweetie! *grins ear to ear*

👨‍🦳-Did you and your F/O get a priest to have you two married? Or did you two 

get another religious or neutral official for your marriage? 

Atsushi: Truth be told, we already have a priest in the ADA. Fukuzawa-san actually has his own government-issued license for religious practices and wedding ceremonies. How he got it, I don’t know? It’s a lot more complicated than that and I don’t want to get into it for complex reasons. But nonetheless, he did a wonderful job officiating the wedding ceremony for us. He’s a great boss, and I wouldn’t have anyone else over him. 😊 

👣-Who walked you down the aisle to your F/O? A familial or platonic F/O? 

Me: Actually, Kunikida-san walked me down that aisle to my husband. He was trying so hard not to cry while doing it, but a few tears did slip out. Before I went up the steps, I did smile at him and patted his shoulder to let him know it’s ok in my own way. He calmed down a bit after that. After all, a wedding isn’t complete without a few people shedding tears of joy. He’s honestly a sweet guy underneath it all. 😃 

🎶- What kind of music did you play at you and your F/Os reception?

Atsushi: We did a mix of oldies and new music to get everyone involved regardless of age or group. 

Me: Yup, it was a mix of pop, rock, EDM, and a dash of dance music. It was a really fun reception overall. Everyone hit the dance floor and definitely got drunk more than once at the cocktail bar we provided. Hahaha! 😆 

🎧- Did you and your F/O hire a DJ at your reception? Or get a live band to play all your songs there? 

Atsushi: We got the Tanizaki siblings to be our DJs for the night. We paid them a good sum of money to get the music going. Truth be told, they’re great at DJ-ing and are really fun to be around. Although I do have one problem with them. They always sneak off somewhere during a “music break’, and it’s always behind a curtain!

Me: Yeah, what the heck is up with that? Haha! We’re supposed to be the ones making out and doing other “stuff”. Oh well, that’s their dynamic though. 

🥘- What kind of food did you give your guests at the reception? What about desserts? 

Me: For us, we went all out with the food at the reception. We provided a Mexican-Japanese fusion of food for people to eat. For appetizers, we had either chazuke, albondigas (meatball) soup, or smoked salmon tapas. For dinner we had either Norigami tacos or sushi burritos. For dessert we provided either fried ice cream or Japanese street crepes. 

Atsushi: The tacos were delicious! Ah, my mouths salivating because of it! Oh, I’m getting off track anyways. Hehe~ We also provided a full bar because we knew people would not be fully entertained without a drink or two. We provided full bodied cocktails, beer, sake, martinis, and much more alcoholic beverages. Chuuya-san wanted to come over and be the bartender just to rub it in Dazai’s face. Surprisingly, he didn’t pick a fight with Dazai and just made great drinks through the whole night. Which is good, we needed peace at our wedding. 😆 

🥂- Who gave the first newlywed toast to you and your F/O? Did they give a good speech?

Atsushi: Dazai-san provided the first wedding toast speech to both. Surprisingly, he was very relaxed and open after having a few drinks himself. His speech was definitely genuine, I could tell. His eyes were flickering with something—passion I think? And a little bit of happiness for us both. I’m really glad he provided the first speech for us, just to have his blessing alone is wonderful. 

🎥 - Who filmed you and your F/Os wedding? Did they take a lot of pictures too? 

Me: Akiko-san was a great photographer. She did well with the props for our engagement photos. She made sure we posed in the right positions, and that my bouquet was well photographed besides my dress and face. She really captured the spirit of us in love at our wedding, and I cannot thank her enough for that! 🙏 💕 

🏡- Where will you and your F/O settle down for a new home? 

Atsushi: We’ll be settling down somewhere in the suburbs close to where we work in Yokohama. It’ll be a gated community, yes, but it won’t entirely be away from the city. The great part is there are a few parks within this housing complex, and our house is right next to most of them. We can just go out and walk around the parks, get our exercise, and talk a bit. Honestly, it’s the best part about us getting married, knowing I’ll have an even closer bond with my wife. 💕 

🕰- How long have you and your F/O been together before getting married? 

Me: Honestly, we’ve been together for at least 3 1/2 years before getting engaged. Even after meeting him, I couldn’t imagine falling in love with anyone else other than him. He’s the love of my life, and I want to spend the rest of my time on this Earth with my Atsushi.~❤️