I think a lot of nonhumans/otherkins forget that;
Itβs okay if you donβt particularly like / or hate something you kin. Youβre allowed complex emotions around what you kin. Being nonhuman/otherkin isnβt usually a voluntary experience. It can be from trauma or just simply being a part of yourself natural. Being complex makes us alive. It makes us real.
Itβs okay if you arenβt always happy to be otherkin/nonhuman. Itβs okay to be sad, our sadness and rage is as important as our joy.
Itβs okay if you donβt want to live in a forest or where your kintype lives. Itβs fine if you like / want to live in cities! Or on the beach or in the mountains. Itβs okay if you like modern things like phones or cars that your kin might not know about / like.
Itβs okay if you donβt have memories of your past lives or if your past lives werenβt impressive or if your past lives were traumatic OR if you simply donβt believe in past lives at all.
Itβs okay if you donβt have any dysphoria or if you have crushing dysphoria around your nonhumanity/kin.
Itβs okay if you arenβt all βaestheticβ βprettyβ and βperfectβ around your kintype/nonhumanity. You can be exactly how you are.
Itβs okay if you donβt know your kintype/nonhumanity, your kintype is complex and hard to understand, and itβs okay if your MULTIPLE kintypes or nonhuman types. You donβt owe anyone anything.
