Aug 19, 2024
the aroace guilt of wanting to come out to people you care about
but knowing that if you'll ever be in a relationship with someone (because relationships don't necessarily mean love and sex, but also trust and understanding) you'll be forever seen as a liar and people will diminish your identity's value
and then you too start to think "what if I'm faking it?"
#I'm sorry it's something I'm thinking about a lot these days#random rumbling#also reminder that some aroace people still don't want to be in relationships and that's okay#we're valid#they're valid#no one is less valid than others#aromanticism#aromantic#aroace#asexual#asexuality#aroace guilt#aroace relationships#can't people just mind eachothers business?
