#wandering-seth

Is there any chance you can go and see a physiotherapist? Maybe you have a friend who is one or something? Anything? Either way, I really hope you feel better soon! So much suck :(

I work with a bunch of occupational therapists, but no one dares recommend anything until I have a diagnosis. PT/OT could make it worse if it’s a rotator cuff tear as opposed to something else. Hopefully Wednesday I’ll get some answers and can start fixing whatever is wrong. I’ve had PT on my shoulder before, and I don’t look forward to doing it again; it’s literal torture. But so is living with it every day, so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@johnnydeppseyeliner ​ replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

<3 <3 <3 <3

*snuggles*

@subbysquid replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

I had something similar going on recently. Turns out to have been a spastic/inflammed teres minor which was *agonizing* to work on, but doing so really did help. Maybe see if you can find a massage therapist that specializes in trigger point therapy? Just other possibility. Hope you feel better soon!

That would be good! An inflammed muscle I can deal with. I’m not a huge fan of strangers putting their hands on me, but if that’s what it is, and massage is a cure, I might try it lol.

@cloama replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

I agree with kholly. The NP at my doctor's office always assumed I didn't know the numbered pain scale. If I said it was a 7 she thought it was a 4.

Ugh. What is wrong with people?!?!? :((((( That’s so cruel of them. Hopefully you’re not still living with a 7. 

@froggybangbang replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

As much as it sucks, if you get the same PA, play your pain up. Don't do the detailed 'I woke up crying' with a straight face because all he's going to see is the face. Some practitioners don't seem to grasp that women have higher tolerance to pain and they just think we're sensitive and therefore moaning for nothing. And be sure to say what happened last time. Refuse to get out until he agrees to find the problem.

Yeah, I’m not going to leave the room until I get an answer, or a path to an answer. I’m not down with undiagnosed, chronic pain. 

@kholly12 replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

This reminds me of a women ignored at the ER medical horror stories post that was making the rounds again recently. Not to scare you, but to say make noise at the doctors office. Push back, don't let the PA write you off.

It doesn’t scare me. I don’t take great care of myself and I am not terribly body aware, so I’m sure some day I’m just gonna drop dead of heart failure or cancer or something. The painful stuff will usually drive me to a doc though, lol. 

@archivistsbelieve replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

I'm so sorry, feel better soon!

Thank you! I’m trying <3 

@wandering-seth replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

*hugs gently* I hope it gets better and that the PA doesn't dismiss you again! :(

Thanks, me too! <3 

@jmathieson-fic replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

Is it just one shoulder, or both? If just one, google "Frozen Shoulder" and see if your symptoms match. Very common in women over 40...

Just one. And holy crap! That would make total sense! Wow, what a relief that it might be something simple and curable without surgery. 

@justgot1 replied to your post “So, shoulder pain is a thing with me, but it’s been bothering me a lot...”

:(((

Seth, I love you <3

(I am not sure how popular the butt spree was? But I am glad that it was enjoyed by some of my dearest internet butt enthusiasts!)

if your hopefully-not-scathing email doesn't work, tell her "it is literally for chewing on, remove your head from your asshole"

The thing is, I think she wants to be a great teacher. She’s just super duper green. (I think this is her first classroom.) She just needs to get more educated about dealing with neurodivergence. It’s literally my job to advocate for developmentally disabled kids, so I’m happy to do it, I just wish she wouldn’t have made Q even *more* upset about school in her learning curve at a time when he doesn’t ever want to go anymore.

@wandering-seth  replied to your post “My son’s teacher told him to stop chewing on his CHEWY NECKLACE...”

I'm sorry this happened! I hope you can resolve it with the teachers. *hugs*

Thanks handsome. *hugs back* I’m sure it’ll be fine. I’m just so tired of everything having to do with the kid being a stressful mess - and he’s even more sick of it! lol

@ayrtonwilbury replied to your post “My son’s teacher told him to stop chewing on his CHEWY NECKLACE...”

if he isn't allowed to chew on his necklace, have you considered getting him a fidget cube? It might help and he can keep it hidden away https://www.antsylabs.com/products/fidget-cube

@nonsenseflora replied to your post “My son’s teacher told him to stop chewing on his CHEWY NECKLACE...”

that's awful :( seconding the antsylabs fidget cube idea - the 'How to ADHD' gal on youtube did a review of it a while back, it looks really neat

speaking of, did you get my ask about what to do when not in the US, or did it get lost in the tumblr void? If you did get it, take your time, no rush, I just wondered. And if not, I'll send it again. :) *hugs*

@adsumcirrat replied to your post “Song ask... Hmm... Actually I had this idea about the Casbah by Abney...”

Have you see the clip for the second one? Imagine either double ohs or Z's thugs popping up suddenly... But I had the very same image for the Casbah - let's explode, let's fuck, let's run away... Later on Alec hears a familiar voice chiding, fucking chiding Bond about unnecessary explosions and just about diws laughing about the irony and hypocrisy. Naturally, Q has to bribe him to stay hush, but M, as in Mallory, knows and sometimes they listen in on the mission & laugh

OMG. This whole story would be worth writing JUST FOR THE REUNION SCENE. Maybe I can get @zooeyscigar to write it with me... *rubs hands together gleefully* 

@wandering-seth replied to your post “For the song thingy: Magic Dance - David Bowie”

this is magnificent! Thank you, darling! :)

heee, so glad you enjoyed it!!!

@nonsenseflora replied to your post “Two Door Cinema Club - Bad Decisions”

OKAY YES GOOD :D also that's now going to be what i think of every time i hear the song, so thank you very much for that! :D :D <3

Heeee, happy to give you happy thoughts :DDD

@the-oxford-english-fangeek replied to your post “for the song ask thing - gone gone gone by philip philps. any pairing...”

boots. booooooooooots. firstly, you can *always* do an au in a response to a prompt i give, that is my jam. secondly, i am dying because this? this is glorious and wonderful and i love everything about it nd i can't believe this is the first i'm hearing about it. we are gonna have to write a little thing for this au at some point because it is too perfect <3

WE ARE SO WRITING THIS. Ugh, why can’t I get paid to write fiction? lol

@rospeaks replied to your post “okay, last one: bad blood- taylor swift.”

UH YES TO THIS

*grins*

@ayrtonwilbury replied to your post “okay, last one: bad blood- taylor swift.”

lord, so help me i tried /tried/ to get into teen wolf but i just couldn't. IT HAS WEREWOLVES. IT HAS EVERYTHING THAT I LOVE. and i feel like i know who these people are...if i squint.

The show sucks. I mean, there really is nothing for it. The actors kept leaving because they didn’t get in depth development or story lines, the plot kept leaving POC and queer people in the dust, the queerbaiting was intentional and horrific (which was 100x MORE hurtful because the writer is a gay man), and the stories just kept making less and less sense. The only reason I care about teen wolf is because I found fandom first, then fell in love with the original cast.

@prosthetical replied to your post “Hallelujah," by Leonard Cohen or your choice of 37473289 covers.”

Oh noooo my heart.

<3333

@ayrtonwilbury replied to your post “i just had sex- the lonely island”

:D

*grins*

@prosthetical replied to your post “Toast is the best food ever.”

Best of luck, darling! I'd vote for you! And butts have nothing do to with it. ... ... Well okay, maybe a little. ��

rishwrites

I don't know you and probably don't live in the same country as you but tbh anyone posting about butts is likely to get my vote so go for it!

So what I’m getting is that I should make my campaign butt-centric? Shall I put a bum on my yard signs? (I don’t think I’ll have yard signs, it’s a very small suburb and not a major position, but butt yard signs would be hysterical, right?)

What would a butt based platform look like? Hmmm... so many possibilities...

“I’m RK, and as your trustee I swear to unconditionally support all bum related media!”

Lost in the woods in Sweden, looking for a castle? That is a sounds like the premise of a good story!

It was a great adventure! I’ll try to find the pictures and tell the whole story soon! Short version: we drove by a really nifty looking ruin and tried to double back to find it, ended up on the wrong side of it and in the process of trying to loop around ended up driving through the woods for almost an hour. There were no other people, and the road was super narrow and scary, and I thought we were gonna be lost forever.

hopefully someone(s) will see the need...

Politicians saw the need decades ago and ACA was the solution. Now they’re just gonna throw all those kids back out into the cold again. It’s fucking disgusting. I fucking hate Republicans.

@wandering-seth replied to your post “So, my agency’s 5 year strategic plan did not anticipate a...”

Fuck! :((( Are you 100% Cheetos will do away with Obamacare?

Pretty sure. Logic dictates that throwing 20 million voters (many of whom are his own) off the healthcare train - and cause a public health crisis - would be something the GOP wouldn’t want to do, but since when has the GOP showed an ounce of interest in logic? I feel like the great American experiment has failed and I have no faith in politicians at all anymore. Not that there was much to begin with. But the system is designed to fail, and it’s just taken this long to crash and burn.

@justgot1 replied to your post “So, my agency’s 5 year strategic plan did not anticipate a...”

:((((((

*whimpers*

@froggybangbang replied to your post “So, my agency’s 5 year strategic plan did not anticipate a...”

Ah fuck, that's so stupid! Fucking hell, I'm sorry boots.