violttepaillette replied to your post: thank you everyone so much for your suggestions...
I missed it but hereās something anyway: in the end the best thing you can do is make it clear that youāre there for her and you are willing to try to give unbiased advice if she wants it (note: try) or just listen if she needs an ear. Also hour or 2 long car trips are great for talking because thereās nothing to do and no one can escape.
thank you. thatās true. absolutely true.Ā
iām just.. torn between doing this, and something more because what if something bad happens, and as a big sister and an adult it was in my power all along to prevent it? i just want her to be happy and safe, but what if iām not doing enough to keep her happy and safe :(












