i really wish i could be more inclusive and i dont outwardly say anything negative about transabled ppl but as a cisdisabled person i cant help but feel so violently uncomfortable when hearing someone say theyre trans- one of my disabilities, i honestly do want to be understanding and respectful and accepting of everyone and to some extent i do understand the perspective of a lot of transabled people but i really cant help how discomforting it is to know theres someone claiming to be transitioning to have something thats frankly ruined my life

it sucks too because i can never talk about this anywhere really, all the radqueers i know are totally ok and accepting of transabled people which is great but it means i cant rlly bring it up to them without them getting upset with me, and the only people i know that would kind of agree with me are anti-radqueers that would block me if i said i identify with any transIDs, its kinda isolating to have more complicated views and feelings on this stuff in such an all-or-nothing space

With the release of the epstein files it's reaaally fucking annoying that people keep using the word "pedophile" when they mean "child abuser/molester". Like can we stop fucking doing this... I'm a MAP not a child abuser. It makes me feel so much shame inside when people are saying things like "kill all pedos!" when I'm one

I'm not fully a radqueer (more so fleuraison but still) but the normalization of hating radqueers for nothing is so.. baffling. Can these people name any transid that isn't "transrace" or "transnazi"? Do they understand that paraphilies aren't just pedophiles who wanna hurt kids?

You're allowed to be uncomfortable but straight up telling a group of people (who YOU perceive as mentally ill btw) to kill themselves is not only really fucked up but surely that's gotta be some form of ableism?

/ pt : radqueer vents, no dni, be kind : end pt /

This is random, but I want to code a userbox generator to my neocities. But it's all from the anti-radqueer side of the internet. So, if I do, I can't tell radqueer people they can use it, I can't use it myself either with radqueer stuff. I can't post about it at all.

Everyone on there, who's flags and terms I've compiled, have radqueer people in their DNI. I don't want to break it.

It sucks because it means, that work of mine is essentially tainted. I can never get it back, lest I disrespect their boundaries (and get a bunch of hate, somehow).

I want to add to it, because I still love that project of mine. I know I can do so much more with it.

I need to be more decisive.

How do you choose between being respectful, er, of people who don't want to respect you, and making pride flags and stuff? It's not even like I'm anti-lgbt or MOGAI now... I just also include other stuff, which is considered 'bigoted' by them.

I'm such a loser. I wish I wasn't put into this position. I wish there was a clear, morally right solution, that's kind to everyone.