When you are aromantic, especially when you are aroallo, you tend to walk a fine line when it comes to headcanoning characters in media as aromantic.
Like yes, one hand I agree that calling two girls who are close with one another, sharing a bed and even have sex with one another as "just the bestest friends" is lesbian and bi erasure.
And on the other hand, my bisexual aroallo ass does wish for that kind of dynamic in a fwb way in fiction. Like no romance, they're fuck buddies or a qpr and committed in their own way to one another. They're still friends and not "just" friends. Just aro lesbians and/or aro bisexual girls doing all of that together.
And yet the danger of the "just friends" devaluement and double erasure zone is right there. Additionally I'm also being at risk of being seen as the one doing a part of the erasure there, all just because "friends" and "just friends" are stupidly close together in the minds of most people.
Want I want to say is: I want to see way more fwb saphic relationships in media that are also great amazing friendships and not "just" friendships.
