for urithangeim, thancred and solkgeim get together after nabaath araeng, and then they both ask out urianger during the shb patches. but during that pre-thangeim period of shb. there's SO much jealousy and then self loathing for being jealous going on
thancred will watch urianger and solkgeim have a Moment and hate himself for being jealous because of course he's not good enough for either of them, he never has been, that's why he's kept quiet about his feelings all this time
urianger will see thancred and solkgeim being cute and yearn and pine for them and beat himself up for it because he's lying to them, he's lying to them again, and this time they'll truly never forgive him-
and solkgeim... man. solkgeim sees the way thancred and urianger's relationship has changed over those three years and stews in jealousy. she should've expected it by now- the months after the praetorium should've taught her. thancred will never choose her.