NOTHING outside of you will give you any validation
Iāll start this by saying Iāve been there, Iāve been there multiple times actually and because Iāve been there I tell you with absolute certainty, itās all you.
I could go on multiple storytimes about how Iād always want validation from my best friend or people around me but if I did, weād be here for the whole year.
This year, I was very discouraged, my self concept was absolute trash when it came to manifestation and my life and because of that, I consistently manifested bad outcomes. I donāt like saying that, but itās actually what happened to me, but itās not whatās gonna happen to you.
Even though I had success stories, I graduated university when all odds were against me, I did manage to sabotage myself when it came to continuing my studies, where to live, love life, etc.
I realized at some point, I was denying myself of everything I wanted and everything I had because I wasnāt getting the validation I wanted from a person whoās opinions I valued so much, and in turn I realized, sure, I might not be looking for validation from Twitter posts or tumblr posts/asks, but I was doing the exact same thing with my then best friend. Identifying this made me realize, I really didnāt believe it was all me, I donāt truly think I was limitless cause I kept asking for their validation and not my own.
Itās been so freeing realizing what was ādelayingā me and I honestly donāt believe in delays, I also donāt necessarily believe in divine timing but I do think I needed this to finally step into my best self, my innermuse
Donāt limit yourself, donāt look for your manifestation, donāt beg the universe and/or people for your manifestations. Believe me when I say, itās all you but this is where self concept plays a part, my self concept was so bad I started searching for flaws in everything, started applying logic to every aspect of my life as if I didnāt know how this actually worked.
Self concept isnāt needed, but I do swear by it. Embrace who you are and what youāre capable of, saturate if thatās what you like, visualize, affirm, persist.
I know for a fact all I desire, all I want and all I envision for myself has happened, thereās no dangers I face, I am secure in myself and in my abilities.
Youāre not close, youāre there, youāre way past the finish line, youāve arrived.












