non binary people who use mostly or exclusively he/him pronouns are vadid.

non binary people who use mostly or exclusively she/her pronouns are valid.

there are so many ways to be non binary, and every single one of them is valid.

neopronouns and they/them positivity get thrown around a lot, as well as multiple pronouns (he/they, she/they), but i don’t see much support for enby people who use primarily or only “binary” pronouns. non binary legit just means not part of the binary, so even if you’re just a little bit not binary you are valid identifying however you want to and feel comfy.

"Ahhhh!! Master this is too embarrassing!! You can't let us go out wearing this!" Ace cried out, pulling down his short dress as a desperate attempt to cover up his knees. "H-How do you wear this..?" Deuce stuttered out, holding out the maid headdress. Ace was holding the tray your sandwiches and tea were in as he watched Deuce figure the headdress out. It was kind of cute to see them so embarrassed while struggling. You couldn't help but let out a small laugh, "Master don't you dare laugh! I swear we're gonna get revenge for this...!"

yes, even that one

and that

YOU! YOU ARE VALID!

(tag someone whos rly super valid) ill start w/ @poisonedapples & @lefaystrent !

Yes!

HAHAHA

I’ve honestly been extremely fortunate to be welcomed by the community by such kind and caring, and open-minded people. Most of you guys out here always just have nice things to say, are looking out for each other, and just spreading good will all around and I can never be thankful enough for that. Truly.

I’ve also been lucky where most comments that might come across that way have always been really helpful with constructive criticism, or pointing out things I hadn’t thought of and making suggestions politely and with reason. Or maybe saying hey, you should be careful with this or you’re leaning toward etc and it’s all usually very helpful, can’t thank people enough for taking the time out just hoping to help. 

But, just like we all do, I’ve received plenty of what would be considered “hate” mail that really does feel more out of spite than an attempt to be helpful. Sometimes there really are just people out there with nothing else better to do, and just don’t worry about. If there’s a nasty comment (usually left anon or guest so u can’t ask them about it) that offers no real critique or help, just delete it. Don’t worry about it. Some people just don’t like what you do or like what you write, and that’s fine, but when they’re going out of their way to say awful things for no reason and offer no real criticism and help, just forget that shit yo it ain’t worth ur time