#unstuckresponse

(( mod j is having emdr so lets talk about it. my therapist let me use my headphones and i held a little remote-sized thing in each hand. theres a beep in the left or right ear, and the thing in the matching hand vibrates.

so basically i sat there, and held the things, and listened to the beeps. my therapist told me to think of a place i felt safe in, and tried to get me to recall as many details about it as i could. what i could feel, hear, see, smell, ect. and once i got a ton of details down, and was remembering the good feeling from the place. and then i came up with a phrase that represented it and tried to connect the nice feeling with the phrase.

and then i said the phrase out loud and that was that. according to wikipedia thats only phase two of like eight?? but since youre starting that should be what happens! it was really relaxing i had it yesterday and still feel nice when i think about it

(( im going to answer this ooc bc i do get this a lot on my personal but to preface it: autism is rad and u are rad and functioning labels are not rad and are pretty much a game of 'how allistic can u act?' which is the shittiest game in the world its worse than monopoly

so here are a few times ive answered it on my personal: here & here

but the biggest thing that helped me is just interacting with other autistic people? we have an autisticstucks network and thats great its like. excellent so excellent.

talking to autistic people about it is great and is going to probably provide the most help.

Poodle here.

You mean on Gigapause and Flarping?

Okay, hello, I RP Sollux on both those sites. Sollux is kind of an asshole, and I try to keep him in-character, but if I ever come across as a Jerk OOC or if my Role Playing ever makes anyone uncomfortable, you can honestly just say so.

I don’t bite but I’m not a mind-reader. I can’t tell if you’re upset unless you talk to me, and I’ll often message people privately if an RP is getting particularly heated to make sure that OOC, everything is cool.

I also don’t bash people for their RPing at all. There are these things called Alternative Character Interpretations that people are allowed to have. I know there are some people (Not naming names because I’m not an asshole.) mainly on Gigapause who do that, but I’m not one of them. Actually, I choose not to interact with them, mainly because they remind me of every petty bully I had to deal with growing up.

To clarify which accounts are mine and which are not mine, in case there really is someone else going around.

On Gigapause:

http://www.gigapause.com/profile/twinArmagedons

On Flarping:

http://flarping.com/profile/twiinarmageddon2

I also have an active Human Mituna (Pre-accident) on Flarping:

http://flarping.com/profile/twiceairtime

Feel absolutely free to shoot me a message IC or OOC any time! Especially OOC if you have any concerns.

If this Sollux is active on MSPARP, I haven’t used that for a while, so it’s not going to be me and I doubt it’s any of my mods, but I will ask. Same goes to Cherubplay.

Finally: If at any point my role playing HAS upset you, I am honestly deeply sorry and urge you to message me. If there’s any way I can make it up to you, PLEASE let me know.

Room asking me if I had taken them, ans when I said no, he told me that he'd shove them down my throat if I didn't. Help?

answering this ooc: 

weve discussed this together and we feel that this is a huge major red flag

from the fact that your aunt got them for you and your dad is reacting so strongly we feel they might be trying to get you on a medication without your informed consent

all medications warn you not to eat if the seal is broken

hell even snapple tells you not to drink it if the seal is broken

this is absolutely a huge red flag & abuse

take the bottle and go to the cops 

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