introducing: unboy and ungirl! it was defined by baphomet (famous gender coining tumblr user) as âa gender that is not its opposite, but itâs inverseâ, and I feel that describes my relationship with both maleness and femaleness really well. whenever I do feel male and female genders, as a panflux person who is mostly agender, i experience them as an âinvertedâ version of male and female if that makes sense. itâs almost like a hyper-feminine, dandy boy type gender and a hyper-masculine, rough girl gender in a sense. so im putting ungirl and unboy into use!