send me  â hc â  + a word and iâll write a headcanon about it regarding my character. // @trustbitchin
iâm gonna break this down from person to person for mike!
TED: mike has NEVER been close to ted. the most they ever bonded was when mike was a small child and would watch TV with ted ( usually sports because thatâs what ted liked to watch and mike had no say in the matter ) but as mike got older, the realization of just how LITTLE the two had in common was undeniable and the wedge between them started. it only proceeded to get worse and worse as the years went on. ted never showed any interest in the sort of things mike liked. once it was CLEAR that mike would never be some star athlete, he might as well have become completely INVISIBLE to his father, unless ted felt the need to berate his son with a snarky comment or two. depending on the verse, if ted finds out about mikeâs bisexuality things become basically irreparable ( not that they really had much of a relationship to begin with ), with the two already being distant and eventually falling out of contact completely.
KAREN: when mike was little he absolutely ADORED his mother. she took care of him, she loved him, and she made sure that he never went without. it wasnât until he started getting older that their relationship started getting more strained. when he was little he probably told her a lot of stuff but started getting more and more secretive the older he got. and with her and tedâs deteriorating marriage, and her being so busy with fifty million other things and always having so much on her plate, their relationship unfortunately grew more and more strained. despite her telling him that he can talk to her about anything, and despite her trying to be supportive of him, he has a tendency to feel like she doesnât understand him at all.
and in season two things just got worse. he couldnât tell her WHY he was so depressed-- once again, despite her INSISTING that he could talk to her, he knew that he really couldnât. she wouldnât understand. so with mikeâs bad attitude and karenâs continual stress of everyday life, their relationship, yet again, got worse. i feel like they probably butted heads a lot, similarly to how she and nancy had in season one.
mike LOVES his mother and he truly DOES wish that they could be closer. in fact, at one point, he asks her to teach him how to cook as well as she does. so she does, and itâs nice, but they still donât get as close as a mother and son SHOULD be. and with mikeâs added rebellion as he gets older, it doesnât help any.
to top it all off, if mike chooses to confide in her about his bisexuality, they grow increasingly distant. thatâs not to say that karen doesnât still LOVE him, but i feel like she wouldnât FULLY understand it and sheâd be more WORRIED for him than anything. nevertheless, much like with ted, mike doesnât speak to her for a while. then, iâd like to imagine that one day they actually DO manage to make amends and karen actually accepts mike for who he is.
so no, things arenât PERFECT between the two of them, but they definitely get better.
NANCY: we all already know that mike and nancy donât really get along in seasons one and two, despite caring very deeply about each other. they have that typical sibling relationship until nancy leaves for college. at first, mike is THRILLED to see her go, but after a while, he quickly realizes just how much he MISSES her and thatâs when the phone calls start. it becomes a habit, after a while, for mike to call nancy AT LEAST once every two weeks, ( though sometimes quicker than that if something particularly noteworthy or shitty or exciting happened to him ) and the two actually start getting a lot closer. they both end up maturing a lot, nancy helps mike out with any issues he may have. ( nancy is the very first person mike confides in about his bisexuality and she helps him figure it out to the best of her ability. ) she gives him advice and they end up developing the kind of relationship that their parents could only WISH that they wouldâve had in the past. mike would consider himself closer to nancy than anyone else. they still have their silly sibling quarrels, but thatâs to be expected.
mike and nancy are already bonded over their traumatic events dealing with the upside down, and sometimes it feels like theyâre the only ones they can turn to, so they end up talking a lot about that as well, right along with everything else. whenever she comes to visit theyâll sit and talk well into the night about their family, their lives, and everything in between.mike goes up to visit nancy whenever he can ( and itâs DEFINITELY a welcome break from their parents and hawkins in general ) and nancy always welcomes him with open arms. it always makes him happy to know that if heâs ever faced with any hardships and has nowhere to go, he can ALWAYS go to his sister and sheâll be there for him.
HOLLY: itâs always been a little harder for mike to connect with holly due to their age gap, but he still tries. heâll listen to her babble on and on about the things that she likes, and theyâll cuddle together on the couch and watch tv shows and movies together. when sheâs finally in school, mike helps her with her homework and projects, and when their parentsâ marriage starts taking a turn for the worst, mike does all he can to shield her from it. whenever the rest of the party comes over, theyâre all more than happy to include holly in their activities, and the basement ends up becoming one of her most frequented spots, even when the partyâs not down there. mike ends up taking her down there most times whenever their parents start fighting and he lets her play with some of his old toys. when mike goes off to college, itâs harder for him see her and keep in contact with her, but he always manages to visit home on his breaks.
whenever mike FINALLY gets himself situated and holly is old enough to make her own decisions, if she ever started to feel miserable at home, mike would take her in with open arms. in another au, similar to that, nancy and mike end up winning custody of holly and taking it upon themselves to raise her, completely obliterating any kind of lasting relationship they couldâve ever had later on with their parents.
CHILDREN: mike loves children and wants at least TWO of them as he gets older. in most verses i have, he has two kids: eleanor nancy wheeler and william james wheeler. annnnd after a discussion with @promiseburdened we decided that mike and el would have a third kid named luke robert wheeler.
TL;DR: as mike gets older, he gets pretty distant from his parents. he grows increasingly closer to nancy and holly as the years go on. itâs not until nancy leaves for college that mike realizes how much he misses her and the two regularly talk to each other on the phone. he also goes to visit nancy and stay with her over breaks ( if she doesnât come back home, that is ). mike also tries to always be there for holly whenever he can. so even though his relationship with his parents isnât the greatest, his bond with his siblings is stronger than ever-- UNBREAKABLE.
p.s. he def wants to become a dad eventually because he loves children.