July taught me this : People are out here waiting for you to be YOU. Not the you you think they wanna see, not the "perfect" you. The flawed, unfinished, REAL you. The trap you! That's where your magic lies...in your transparency . So be that. 💛 __________________________________________ #traptherapytheblog #traptherapy #blogging #blackbloggers #funny #datingwhileblack #instablog #inspirationalquotes #love #selfcare #therapy #relationships #inspiration #mindfulness #coaching #counseling #unconventional #trappytribe #women #TrappyHourLive #kasfacts #blackness #culture #thetrapiyanla

One time for all the aunties who teach us not to take NO ONE'S shit!! 🙌🏾💛 ___________________________________________ #traptherapytheblog #traptherapy #blogging #blackbloggers #funny #datingwhileblack #instablog #inspirationalquotes #love #selfcare #therapy #relationships #inspiration #mindfulness #coaching #counseling #unconventional #trappytribe #women #TrappyHourLive #kasfacts #blackness #culture #thetrapiyanla

They say if you wanna see God laugh, tell him your plans . At 20 years old I was SURE what I wanted. To be married straight out of college, with a child by the time I was 25. I spent nights literally crying and pleading to God to give me those things . Little did I know that I had no clue who i was yet and how much I'd change in my 20's! . I recognize NOW that my trauma was running the show at 20. Me trying to undo everything that had happened to me...thinking that a new family would alleviate my suffering . I'm SO very grateful that God knows better than I do . __________________________________________ What are some things that you thought you wanted 10 years ago that time and wisdom has changed? __________________________________________ #traptherapytheblog #traptherapy #blogging #blackbloggers #funny #datingwhileblack #instablog #inspirationalquotes #love #selfcare #therapy #relationships #inspiration #mindfulness #coaching #counseling #unconventional #trappytribe #women #TrappyHourLive #kasfacts #blackness #culture #thetrapiyanla