#transdutch

Communication

Being direct is normal and expected

Bragging is a big no! Don't oversell yourself.

Debate is friendly

Correct others, especially pronunciation of words

Subtle/dry sarcasm

Small talk is SHORT! Conversations quickly move to real topics.

Personal questions come early

Silence is not awkward

Be clear, hinting is kind of confusing here!

Time

Punctuality really matters!

Calenders rule over. Plans are often made weeks in advance.

Spontaneous visits are rare, always ask first

Meetings always start on time

Etiquette

Split the bill

Birthdays are for everybody, congratulations to the whole family!

Bring something small as a gift when invited somewhere

Dont overstay

Shoe rules depend on the house, ask because there is no one set way

Three kisses as a greeting mostly among women

Firm handshakes

Say goodbye to everybody individually

Pets are family, and are found in cafes and houses often

Kids are included in conversation, and treated as independent people

Food

Have simple lunches

Dinner is around 6 PM

Offer coffee

Take one thing at a time rather than grabbing a handful

Don't expect or get huge portions

Popular foods I've found...: chocolate sprinkles on bread, cheese, and licorice. love them all, or pretend you do

Potlucks are common

Daily

Stay out of bike lanes

Weather and complaining about it is always a topic

Layered clothes matter

Be sustainable

Public transport is trusted

Values

Equality is key

Independence taught young

Respect privacy

Consensus decision making

Follow rules

Work-life balance is strong

National pride is pretty quiet unless it's about football.

ORANGE ON KING'S DAY! Join or be confused

Traditions

Sinterklaas. December 5 is huge for kids.

King’s Day = national party. Flea markets, boats, orange outfits...

Carnival. Big in the south, quiet elsewhere.

Fireworks on New Year’s. Very loud!

Birthday calendar in the toilet. I don't actually know why this is common???