This is the video Terre shared with us on instagram, I had watched it a few years back when I was on a motivational video binge, she is the reason I stopped getting my nails done. Terre inspired me to watch it again, and I want to share with you the things that stood out the most to me. Hopefully you all get a chance to watch it and share your thoughts as well !
âEverything I need to get back up, I have in me, If I don't have what I need, I can go get it.â
âHurt people hurt, sad people make other people sad.â
âYou want to make me extraordinary, because it lets you off the hook.â
âWe are all waiting for perfect, it's an illusion that will never come to you, it's an excuse to never show up and play.â
âGood people should do well, because when good people do well, good people just do more good in the world.â
âI was willing to completely die to any from of me that I have been, so that I could birth the women that I was becoming.â
âAnother reason why people wonât get there is because the doorway is for you to fit through, You tryna carry everyone else through cause you tryna be rescue 911 and you gotta rescue you first. I am much more valuable to my family and to my community because I was willing to let them go, go through the door myself, teach myself, condition myself and then come back and get them. I am much more valuable to them nowâ
I relate to this particularly when it comes to my mom. My mom is not exactly financially stable, and I feel the pressure to help her out beyond  my means. I sometimes feel like I can barley take care of me, I may not be able to help as much as I would like now but I am working towards a better future for us.
âI don't ever want to think I arrivedâ
âI went to people that was about serving others to the highest level, you see I make a lot of money, because I serve more people. All your success is on the other side of service. People trying to make money; if it begins and ends with money, it's going to be a short lived victory, but if its about transforming lives, then the wind keeps going and going and growing and growing.â
âI was willing to be the student first, ... number two: I looked at every toxic behavior in my life, every oneâ
âIf you wake up everyday and say; I have nothing to protect, I have nothing to prove, I have nothing to hide, I have nothing to defend. Now who do I choose to be? Because your energy is consumed  with protecting, proving, hiding and defending, but if you let go of that, then now you're in creation.â
âYou want someone celebrate you, more than you celebrating yourself.â
âThe world is looking at  you and following your example on how to treat you.â
âI was everything for everybody, but nothing for myself.â
âI started everyday celebrating Lisa, forgiving Lisa, and making a commitment to Lisa, and then I was wiling to invest money in ME ..., literally.â
âI was willing to inconvenience my entire life, ...I was willing to disrupt my entire life to buy my future, to buy my possibility, to give my dream a chance. See weâre not supposed to tuck our dreams in on the pillow when we get up in the morning, were not supposed to leave them at home and go and fulfill someone else's dream, were not supposed to do that, that's not what we are wired to do, that's not who we are. Your HUMAN SPIRIT doesn't care about the economy, the human spirit doesn't care that my sons father went to prison, the human spirit doesn't care what happened to your family, the human spirit doesn't care about the past...Your HUMAN SPIRIT doesn't care about any of that! Your HUMAN SPIRIT simply says âWhatâs our command for tomorrow? What do you want to create?...ââ
âIm just here to tell you JUMP! Because only  three things can happen; your either going to jump and fly, or you're going to jump and fall on something soft, or you're either going to fall and land on something hard, either way you're going to get back up.â
âYour Greatest fear is not that you will fall, your greatest fear is the you will live a full life and never fly.â
âMoney just buys better memoriesâ
âI was willing to be incovenienced for my conviction, If you go where youâve never gone, do what youâve never done and say what youâve never said, youâll become the woman and the man youâve always known yourself to be.â
âTo make sleeping and complacency, difficult.â
âOther peopleâs perception of you ainât none of your business, its your job to do the best you possible and in doing you, you inspire us.â
Stop wasting your time on what others think of youÂ
âYou are an unrepeatable miracleâ
âHeâs going to find his best lessons in his biggest mistakes. so don't be afraid of mistakeâ
âI love transformation more than I love motivationâ
âAn exercise called Expose the Liesâ (40:23)
16 blank sheets of paperÂ
Write down a list of lies in pencil and leave space between each lie
Write down every lie you tell yourself (just about money)
Write down all the lies you have told yourself about who you are
Write down all the lies you have told yourself about relationship{romantic, family, friends)Â
Write down all the lies you tell yourself around health and fitness
Write down every all the lies you tell yourself around your spirituality
Write the truth down in between each lie (even if you can't believe it yet, in red pen)
Read for two days at least x4 a day; The lie the truth, the lie, the truth (neurolinguistic programming)
After the second day, erase the lie, so then you are just left with the truth
âRun after it like your late for workâ
âItâs not anyones job to complete youâ
âConsciousness is very important but it means nothing without action.â
âAction is the prescription to success.â
âWe use try as a crutch to say i really don't want to do it, but I don't want to tell you nowâ
âThe truth is sexy, and it's liberating, and it's sobering.â
âSome of us are just as afraid of being loved as we are afraid of being left, can you give the world permission to leave you and love youâ