#tr*p

god it sucks being trans near cis people cause you know there’s a significant chance that you’re the only trans person they’ve ever met and known was trans so now you have to Watch Your Language and Explain Things Gently and it’s so much fucking work you don’t even get paid for. but you don’t have the luxury of saying “google is free” because there’s so much fucking transphobic shit on the internet that you can’t tell them to do their own research because chances are they’ll do the bare minimum and think it’s ok to call us traps

hot take but i dont think cis people should debate about whether tr*p is or isnt a slur. the trans community is (for the most part) still debating about this and to have some cisgender motherfucker come in and be like “well I use it as just a fetish term” like thats the only fucking connotation it has and doesnt have a long history of being used to justify MURDER is so fucking insulting. youre not even trans how can you decide whats harmful to a group youre not a part of.

lmao my family still doesnt understand that calling someone a trap is a trans slur

Sorry "the good femboys" but your going to have to find another term that's not as ridiculously easy to be co-oped by 4chan tr*p fetishists if you want trans women to even slightly consider the idea of trusting you.

@y'all smarter than me is femboy still allowed? I know the t word for them anime lads with feminine features was a slur, but femboy is just feminine-boy right?