#toxic server

I would like to add that they have considered my BPD episodes an “attitude” before.

Here they give me false hope by suggesting that if I “change my attitude” I would be let in. Here they are gaslighting me about suggesting such.

Here’s me calling them out and then them finally shedding some light on what happened, finally revealing they were not the one that kicked me despite acting like that was the case at first.

You’ll see here that they told me they would get in contact with the owner aka getting me in contact with him then guess what…

Yep, they blocked me 💀

So basically they lied to me. Now when I said this:

I was refering to this:

Yep, that’s the mod AND the owner leaving 5 star reviews of their server to make it look good.

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Now I’m not the only one who’s been having trouble with Vivid. Here’s some friends from a previous server we were all in talking about how they wanted to put their little community into vivid as a new server but absolutely could not stand it.

Star recalls a similar situation to mine where someone was kicked without warning. This is also proof this isn’t just a me thing and it is a server thing.

Clearly, the staff value petty drama over running an actual functioning server.

A friend of theirs is now trying to defend since di stated I was making this post. Basically, stating that I deserved it and that every negative review is wrong or biased.

Blaming everyone except the moderation. They then revealed this:

A “soiled record” apparently.

Basically stating it was okay for me to be banned and never told I was making people uncomfortable when that isn’t fair to me as I didn’t know. They still try to justify it in later dms but alas I cannot post more pictures.

Takeaway:

Do NOT join VividSMP. It isn’t worth it and you’re only gonna end up being on a toxic server.

What can you do?:

Report them on Disboard and leave reviews explaining what they’ve done and why not to join. Report the staff members if you have their discord users. Warn your fellow players about this SMP and encourage anyone you know on it to leave.