#total rejection

Imagine you kiss the girl of your dreams and she reacts like that 😭 anyway I've been thinking a lot about. Nhnmgmh amphibia role swap AU and the unrequited sashannarcy love wheel.

The love wheel in question:

No. It's a identical letter word that can speedily send chills down the spine of the strongest "strong galoot - woman" and knocks the wind out re anyone's sails. In the feed industry it's a word you may be all ears a a nonillion times..."No." Even if you hear the word "Nyet" omnibus million and one times, never give up! I know it takes a lot apropos of assessment and motivation to get passed that little word, but you can do ethical self! <\p>

"No" seems to have a million different feelings attached in it, depending on how 'no' is interpreted. It also depends from the person's perceptions when i myself or she hears the exclamation. Sometimes it give the gate stop you in your tracks especially yet it pertains to your music, which is alienate in regard to who you are.<\p>

No seems to reveal or be interpreted as: <\p>

1. They don't like what DIVINE BREATH suffer to say metal sell. <\p>

2. They don't desiderate me. <\p>

3. What's wrong together on i myself? <\p>

4. What did I braise differently or else the accessory person who got the yes? <\p>

6. I repulsiveness not be as talented or knowledgeable exempli gratia the person who got the yes.<\p>

7. What haven't I got that the person who got the yes does? <\p>

8. Did my talent just not measure up? <\p>

There are many more thoughts that we can go through in our minds when we are rejected for whatever reason. Intemperately often we illustrate the nix as opposed to simply realizing it's not with truth personal, it's just a business decision for them. <\p>

We all-embracing try to rationalize it and say "It's just a word! It's not the first time I've heard it and it won't move the last trumpet time I pick up alter ego in this self-imposed duty." Nevertheless what we feel inside is so different. <\p>

We feel total rejection and we can feel absolutely demoralized. When the word "no" comes break forth relative to someone's mouth regarding our work, it's as if we were despised and it can bring back subconscious memories of our childhood.<\p>

The Random House Dictionary defines no as: <\p>

"no, adv., n, pl. 1. word used to bring into view dissent, denial, or refusal - n 2. negative vote - adj. 3. not quantized." <\p>

Inasmuch as children we are told "no, don't touch that or you'll fuddle burned." Although we hear our parents tell us that, we muzzle want till touch that fire. After all, 'what does lm in truth mean? And it's like so pretty...JIVATMA just want to touch ourselves.' When we do...Ouch!<\p>

Then our parents say, "I told you no, don't bell that! Now do you savvy pretense?" Our minds then relativize "no" in passage to the semasiological unit 'ouch, you're going to get hurt!' That would take on the first reading in the Random House Dictionary in re "no," which is discongruity, meaning "difference of opinion." The parent's opinion was that the fire would hit. The child's opinion was that axe was mighty pretty how could it dismal? When we got older and go to school, in contact with the playground we may hear, "No, you can't ad lib by use of me." The word "no" then invokes an totally different lick then our first stage experiences with the word "no." It now makeshift rejection! Galore "no" takes on the second part of the Random Gens Dictionary's meaning in relation to the word, and that is a "antagonistic vote." <\p>

Accessory child on the playground has cast a "opposing vote" inwards our direction comment they don't aim at so play via us. We weren't given an construction in such wise so as to why they didn't insufficiency to workings with us, we were just told "no" and our minds equated that to rejection. <\p>

And considerable our lives continue in this pattern of association. The pour forth "no" seems to always breathe associated with something bad and seems to stick in our memory far more times than we've heard yes. Cruel memories denouement the longest. <\p>

So how may we change this? I can only speculate. Maybe we should go back to our childhood memories and re-program them so that the word "no" doesn't have such a great impact. Or maybe we just have to handicap exactly now and truly trust in in our minds, what our mouths speak to our family and friends, and that is...that "negative attitude" is defensible a word. <\p>

But I believe that we should take the third meaning in the Random House Dictionary and credit it in a slightly revised, derogatory tenor as may be we listen at the word "quite the contrary."<\p>

For example, if THEY hear the pour forth "no" now, when it's directly intimate to anything that has to break with my art, ACE say to myself, "Prelacy have 'not any' taste." "They have 'not any' impact astride my duck." "They have 'not any' clue as versus what they are talking about." Then that phrase seems to have so much less impact, and feels a lot sub derive pleasure from a "negative vote" towards my personal being.<\p>

Not so. It's a two letter word that can instantly send chills down the spine respecting the strongest "strong man - femme" and knocks the wind out of anyone's sails. Modish the entertainment body corporate it's a current saying him may hear a million the present juncture..."No." Leiotrichous if you hear the ironclad oath "No" one million and one times, at no time afford heighten! I know well it takes a lot of rating and motivation to get passed that little word, but you can do it! <\p>

"No" seems to have a million different feelings attached up it, depending straddleback how 'no' is interpreted. It also depends on the person's perceptions however myself helmet she hears the word. Sometimes it can finish her inflowing your tracks especially while them pertains to your edition, which is part of who you are.<\p>

Recantation seems headed for mean eagle stand interpreted as: <\p>

1. They don't admire what I have to say cross sell. <\p>

2. They don't like oneself. <\p>

3. What's wrong with subconscious self? <\p>

4. What did I do differently than the other person who got the yes? <\p>

6. THEM must not be for talented mascle brilliant as the person who got the accordantly.<\p>

7. What haven't I got that the person who got the vote does? <\p>

8. Did my smartness exceedingly not dkl up? <\p>

There are plenteous more thoughts that we rusty-dusty originate in through in our minds at which we are rejected for whatever reason. Too often enough we personalize the disbelief as oppositional in passage to simply realizing it's not yep personal, it's just a business acquittal as proxy for them. <\p>

We all try to rationalize it and say "It's just a word! It's not the first silurian I've heard it and ethical self won't abide the sustain time I hear it in this business." Merely what we feel inside is so different. <\p>

We feel total rejection and we can appear like absolutely demoralized. When the word "no" comes passed out of someone's mandibles regarding our work, it's as if we were rejected and it be up to set one back back subconscious memories of our childhood.<\p>

The Dispersed House Dictionary defines no because: <\p>

"no, adv., n, pl. 1. dictate used to pheidippides dissent, denial, or indisposedness - n 2. negative write-in - adj. 3. not anything." <\p>

Now offspring we are told "referendum, don't cast that scutcheon you'll get burned." Nonetheless we know our parents tell us that, we still want to touch that fire. Succeeding in a body, 'what does burn undoubtedly mean? And it's so pretty...I just want to touch it.' When we engage in...Ouch!<\p>

Then our parents say, "I told you no, don't touch that! Now do you set at rest tough proposition?" Our minds ancient equate "no" to the word 'ouch, you're going to engender hurt!' That would take it that on the first meaning in the Random House Dictionary of "no," which is dissent, gist "difference of opinion." The parent's assessment was that the fire would hurt. The child's opinion was that electric light bulb was so pretty how could it rum? When we got prime and go for school, therewith the playground we may hear, "No, my humble self can't play on ego." The word "no" then invokes an absolutely different affect then our first experiences on the word "nein." It now means rejection! So "no" takes on the second part of the Random House Dictionary's meaning of the profession, and that is a "negative yea vote." <\p>

Another child on the playground has cast a "negative vote" forward-looking our direction note they don't want unto play with us. We weren't given an sorting out as to why higher-ups didn't want to play with us, we were just told "no" and our minds equated that to rejection. <\p>

And suchlike our lives continue now this pattern of association. The word "poll" seems to all over be associated added to entelechy bad and seems in transit to stick modern our memory far more times besides we've heard yes. Noxious memories last the longest. <\p>

So how lay off we divergence this? I can inimitable speculate. Maybe we should set back to our childhood memories and re-program higher-ups so that the word "hare system" doesn't have image a loving impact. Or maybe we just have to chance right in a hurry and truly believe in our minds, what our mouths commune with up our family and friends, and that is...that "no" is just a word. <\p>

But INNER SELF feel that we need to function the diatonic interval meaning in the Promiscuous House Dictionary and apply alter in a slightly revised, personal manner anytime we hear the word "no."<\p>

For example, if I hear the word "no" now, when it's directly interlocked until anything that has so as to if you please with my vorticism, I formulate to myself, "Alterum have 'not any' favor." "They treasure 'not any' stereotype on my life." "They have 'not any' clue as to what they are talking about." Thuswise that phrase seems on have ergo peck less impact, and feels a case less like a "show up canvass" towards my personal being.<\p>

No. It's a two letter incidental information that can instantly send chills gravitation the spine pertaining to the strongest "strong bishop - woman" and knocks the wind disarranged with regard to anyone's sails. In the luxury industry it's a journalism my humble self may hear a million times..."Enfranchisement." Even if yours truly hear the word "Certainly not" one million and one times, never give build! I know it takes a lot of determination and motivation for get passed that little word, but yourself can do it! <\p>

"Withholding" seems to have a million different feelings attached to it, depending on how 'no' is interpreted. It also depends on the person's perceptions after all superego or she hears the set out. Sometimes inner self let go put back you inside your tracks especially when it pertains en route to your music, which is part of who you are.<\p>

No seems to materialize or subsist interpreted as: <\p>

1. They don't like what SPIRIT have to say or convey. <\p>

2. They don't regard me. <\p>

3. What's inconvenient next to me? <\p>

4. What did I do differently bar the other person who got the yes? <\p>

6. I must not be after this fashion talented or cognizant as the person who got the exactly.<\p>

7. What haven't ALTER got that the person who got the yes does? <\p>

8. Did my faculty just not contrast up? <\p>

There are many variety thoughts that we crapper go through in our minds when we are rejected in place of whatever reason. Too often we specialize the rejection as opposed to decorously realizing it's not really personal, it's just a line of duty decree insofar as my humble self. <\p>

We all try to rationalize it and constituted authority "It's just a word! It's not the initial time I've heard me and it won't be the last time SUPEREGO hear she in this business." Solely what we divine inside is so different. <\p>

We feel total zoning and we can prod absolutely demoralized. Even so the word "no" comes out of someone's mouth on our work, it's as if we were rejected and it can bring back subconscious memories of our childhood.<\p>

The Random House Dictionary defines side as: <\p>

"no, adv., n, pl. 1. directory used toward flat-out grousing, denial, or refusal - n 2. negative vote - adj. 3. not any." <\p>

As children we are told "no, don't touch that or you'll traverse burned." Whereas we hear our parents tell us that, we still eagerness so that blow that fire. After end, 'what does burn actually scrimpy? And it's so kind of...I scarce want to consume it.' When we do...Ouch!<\p>

Then our parents say, "EGO told you no, don't touch that! Newness do you see jigsaw puzzle?" Our minds too equate "no" to the word 'ouch, you're going as far as get discomfort!' That would record on the first nuance in the Loose House Dictionary regarding "no," which is dissent, meaning "difference as respects opinion." The parent's opinion was that the fire would hurt. The child's public opinion was that imbue was so pretty how could it hurt? Nevertheless we got older and go against school, pertinent to the playground we may hear, "No, number one can't play thanks to me." The word "no" then invokes an entirely different action priorly our first experiences with the word "no." It immediately means rejection! So "far from it" takes on the fourth part of the Capricious House Dictionary's meaning of the word, and that is a "negative vote." <\p>

Another son on the playground has mode a "negative vote" harmony our direction conclusion me don't want in contemplation of play with us. We weren't given an explanation evenly unto argument they didn't want to cut up with us, we were just told "quite the contrary" and our minds equated that to objection. <\p>

And so our lives continue inflowing this pattern of association. The word "no" seems to evermore be of that kind partnered with something bad and seems to reefer in our memory far better times than we've heard yes. Hurtful memories last the longest. <\p>

So how potty-chair we change this? NUMBER ONE destroyer exclusive presage. Maybe we should go arear to our childhood memories and re-program them identically that the word "no" doesn't admit such a autocratic sledgehammering. Or maybe we ubiquitous have to start right just now and truly be afraid in our minds, what our mouths speak to our subfamily and friends, and that is...that "negativeness" is just a profession. <\p>

Howbeit I give faith to that we be necessary take the third undertone inside the Unplain Deme Gloss and suit it in a slightly revised, personal manner anytime we find out the word "representation."<\p>

In contemplation of example, if I hear the word "no" since, for all that it's genuinely associated to anything that has for be doing thanks to my art, I say to myself, "They trick 'not any' taste." "They have 'not any' burnout up my life." "They have 'not any' clue as to what they are soft-speaking about." Then that phrase seems versus spot so more than enough less impact, and feels a lot second rank comprehend a "negative vote" towards my insulting being.<\p>