go ahead yall, invalidate my sexuality bc I'm a lesbian and write nsfw about men. its because its FICTIONAL, same for celebrities. this is completely different because its not being attracted to the man, its the idea of the man. and that idea is completely unattainable and has no risk because its not real. its safe. Plus, in a community with no other lesbians, its easier to find common ground with others when talking about men sometimes ngl. On top of all that, comphet is a bitch. I also find that i feel "attracted" to a man when in reality I'm jealous of the effect he has on women. does any of that make sense? either way, none of that changes the fact that i am a lesbian. i support u <3
Unfortunately I think some of them do know this or at least they know fake attraction exists but they simply choose to ignore it. Itâs funny because thereâs a lot of ace/aro people writing/reading nsfw things (or romantic things) and I donât see as many people telling them theyâre not ace/aro as people do with lesbians (correct me if Iâm wrong, this is just from my experience).
It totally makes sense as someone who also struggled with comphet. Iâd like the idea of perfection men are usually portrayed as, once that idea was over my âattractionâ was also over. And I totally understand thinking you like men because youâre actually jealous of how their effect on women.
