- DNI if you’re: homophobe, racist, misogynistic, TERF/radfem, lesbophobe, transphobe, biphobe, aphobe, or if you’re (or support) someone who is a “bi lesbian”, “bi gay” or someone who is a man and identifies as lesbian.
- IF YOU’RE A MINOR PLEASE BLOCK THE TAG #lgbt nsfw (I accept receiving nsfw asks as long as it’s not about men)
- Here’s the link of my sapphic server on discord (lesbians and other sapphics, and also minors can join)
- Here’s the link that explain very well why the “bi lesbian” label is problematic.
- I talk about my own experiences, LGBTQ+ related issues, and my asks are always open to anyone who wants to talk/vent whatever.
- If you want to discuss anything that you don’t really agree with me then it’s okay, as long as you’re not being rude and prejudiced like people who usually want to argue with me are.
- Most posts are more focused on lesbianism, but there’s a few about the queer community and other identities. So even if you want to talk about other identities my blog is also a safe space for that.
- My dms are always available
- There’s some people who use specific emojis whenever they send anon asks, so if you want to do that so I can know which anon I’m talking to feel free to choose an emoji and do that! Emojis that were used already: ⛄️🧸🍓🫐🍄👽🍎🥩🦇🦈🐸🌻🌙🐶🪻🐱🌺💥🌸🥀📛🌝🎸☔️🦤🖍️🧬🦋🎀
Tags:
- #lgbt nsfw : any post that contains nsfw content.
- #my experiences : posts about my own experiences regarding my sexuality/identity.
- #screenshots : self explanatory.
- #lesbian characters :every character that is canon lesbian.
- #famous lesbians : every celebrity who identifies as lesbian
- #lesbian rep : it has both lesbian characters and famous lesbians
- #stephanie talks : basically all my posts I vent about stuff are tagged with this.
- #stephanie answers : all my asks.
- #not lgbt related : all posts that are not related to the community.
- #comphet : experiences/issues related to comphet and understanding more fake attraction vs real attraction.
- #cultural shock : just me talking about differences of my cultures with others.
- #long post : self explanatory
- #ask game tag : reblogs of ask games in case anyone wants to do it.
- #ask game : answers from ask games.
- #queer terms : all my posts that I explain the meaning of LGBTQ+ terms.
- #pride flags : posts showing pride flags and their meanings.
- #tik toks : videos usually lgbtq+ related.
- #lesbian experiences : my experiences of being a lesbian.
- #queer rep : posts about characters and movies/shows/books with queer characters.
- #queer tropes
- #latin america : posts about anything to do with being Latin-American and living in LatAm.
- #queer latines : queer representation of Latin Americans.
- #lgbt recs : my recommendations of LGBTQ+ movies, shows and books.
- #men being men : men being stupid or incredibly shitty.
- #anon : anon asks.
- #source: patronsaintoflesbians : all videos related to lesbian experiences and comphet.
- #femme : posts related to femmes.
- #femme4femme
- #’bi lesbians’ : posts to talk about “mspec lesbians” and men identifying as lesbians.
- #american moment
- #my headcanons : characters I headcanon as lesbians (some of them are headcanons sent by other people)
- #male crushes : this will be tagged whenever I receive asks that involve male crushes like celebrities or fictional characters
- #lgbt facts : series of posts about random lgbt facts that are not about the US.
- #tw corrective rape
- #free blocklist : exposing blogs that go against my dni list for anyone interested.
- #famous tropes : this will be a series of popular movie/book/show tropes that are prejudiced/problematic.
- #lesbian culture : series of posts about what I think is lesbian culture (pls they’re not supposed to be taken seriously, it’s just for fun).
- #my crushes: fictional characters and celebrities I had/have a crush on.
- #my favs : my favorite canon lesbian characters
-#brazilian rep: famous brazilians
-#favorite male characters
-#stephanie listens to : songs I recommend (usually latin american songs)
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You absolutely have the right to not agree with someone else’s opinion and not ship the same thing as other people.
But when it comes to mlm/wlw, specifically the ones where CLEARLY there’s queerbaiting involved, it’s kinda shitty to act all like “this ship is absurd, it doesn’t make any sense, y’all are crazy”.
This seems so much like a heterosexual behavior and as someone who clearly haven’t got a clue about what’s queerbaiting and queer coding.
I’m talking about ships like swanqueen, supercorp, wolfstar, etc.
People are not shoving a ship down your throat, people are simply trying to make you understand the implications of queerbaiting and you want to act all childish and not want to listen because you only see that as someone else trying to force you to ship the characters.
I swear heterosexuals are always the annoying ones in fandoms…
A lot of people from different minorities sometimes forget (or purposely ignore) that women (regardless if they’re white, cis, heterosexual, etc) are still women. It’s like if a woman is also part of an oppressor group they instantly ignore the fact that she’s a woman.
Apparently telling people to stop calling us monosexuals is biphobia. And "not all lesbians and gays are monosexual so its a specific type of gay!" even though everyone, including straight people, can be attracted to enbies.
Everything seems biphobic because a lot of people are not ready to face their own prejudices so they’re more comfortable using the biphobia card to feel better with themselves.
So many self identified left wing people from the global north are xenophobic and would NEVER admit that.
A lot of you are just performative. You know the whole “white savior” thing? You’re just like that with minorities in general, especially Americans. And I feel like a lot of you are like that because you feel so progressive for being democrat when that’s not even a real left wing party.
When it comes to the global south many of you don’t act that different from people like Trump, you just hide it better.
Wow and if we dare point this out most of you get so defensive and will misuse any and every prejudice you can just to silence us. That’s how we know y’all are just bullshit and don’t care about us nor the prejudice you’re trying to use against us.
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I hate when people try to mock misogynistic men by using homophobia or arguments like “real men don’t do this”.
1) By using homophobia, not only you lose the right to fight back because fighting prejudice with prejudice isn’t right nor the answer, but also homophobia is directly rooted in misogyny. So you’re basically trying to fight misogyny by also being misogynistic;
2) “real men don’t do this”. Yes they do, by implying men who are misogynistic are less men you’re not actually trying to fight misogyny. It’s important to recognize that YES, real men are misogynistic because the majority of men are misogynistic.
According to homophobes when you’re a kid you’re too young to know you like the opposite gender… but no one says anything when it comes to boys who have a crush on girls or girls who have a crush on boys.
Their logic is simple: it’s only used when it’s convenient for them.
No, not everyone is “a little bisexual” and that take isn’t woke.
Gays and lesbians are not attracted to the opposite gender at all. So many of us have been kicked out, isolated from our families, taken to fucking conversion therapy/camps, lesbians are the main victims of corrective rape, homosexuality historically has been treated as a disease/disorder, not to mention how it’s literally a crime just to be who we are in so many countries.
Aro/ace people are probably the most erased group in the LGBTQ+ community, even more so when it comes to strictly aroace people. Their sexuality is never taken seriously, others often think there’s something wrong (biologically speaking) with them.
So no, “everyone is a little bisexual” will never be something progressive to say because guess what? We’re also oppressed for not being attracted to the opposite gender.
I know it can be hard for so many of you to understand and recognize this, but it’s just how the world works. If you cared to try to listen to what we say, perhaps by know you wouldn’t be throwing around phrases like that.
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Interacting online with Americans and Europeans (and I’m talking specifically about the ones from colonizer countries) has made me realize 2 things:
1) A lot of Americans say stupid shit out of ignorance, because they don’t really have subjects in school to study about other countries history;
2) A lot of Europeans say stupid shit out of pure hatred and evilness because they’re taught this brainwashed version of what their country did to others and as if the fact that their country’s wealth came from exploitation and violence doesn’t matter.
So yes, Americans might piss me off to the point of hating a lot of them, but in comparison to how Europeans act when it comes to third world countries that’s NOTHING.
Only gays, lesbians and strictly aroace people understand the process of almost grieving the easier life you could have had if you were attracted to the opposite gender, coming to terms with the fact that we won’t ever be able to fulfill what society expects of us.
Sapphics who’re planning to get in a relationship:
For a healthy relationship it’s great if your partner is also your friend, but I wouldn’t advise to be your only friend. This so easily could turn into emotional dependence, and this isn’t good for any of you.
I also wouldn’t advise to date someone of the same circle of friends, especially if it’s your only one. The friend group most likely will choose a side or always be kinda walking on eggshells with you and your partner. Not to mention perhaps you want to vent about your relationship with someone and doing this with someone who’s also friends with your partner isn’t really good.
It’s so important to be friends with other people besides your partner.
Be careful with someone who might slowly make you distance yourself from your friends. I know this happens way more often with m/f couples but it’s still important to be careful. So be aware of signs such as someone who basically forces themselves into you and your friends hanging out to the point you don’t hang out only with your friends.
I also wouldn’t really advise to date your best friend because if you two ever break up you’d lose both your partner and your best friend at once.
Can I just say how ridiculous it is the whole “ragebait” thing?
Because one thing is saying something purposefully stupid but unharmful just to piss people off
It’s a whole other thing being openly prejudiced and when people rightfully get mad you pull this card. Prejudice isn’t something to joke about, especially when you’re not part of the minority you’re making fun of.
The fact that this behavior seem to come from white cishet men says a lot.
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People use male friendships and female friendships to be homophobic in very different ways.
When it comes to male friendships they can barely make any physical contact without homophobes mocking them or claiming they must be gay because apparently men cannot be affectionate with each other in a platonic way.
Meanwhile female friendships while it’s acceptable to be affectionate with each other, it’s SO “acceptable” that people use this to contribute to sapphic erasure and to invalidate wlw relationships.
It’s funny to see a misogynistic man’s reaction to being called a potential abuser because most of the time he will call you a whore, slut, bitch, etc.
1) Those are not crimes lol you really think being a criminal is compared with being any of those things?
2) It’s 2026 and you still think it’s more shameful to be a sex worker than being miserable enough that you have to PAY for someone to have sex with you?
