- DNI if youâre: homophobe, racist, misogynistic, TERF/radfem, lesbophobe, transphobe, biphobe, aphobe, or if youâre (or support) someone who is a âbi lesbianâ, âbi gayâ or someone who is a man and identifies as lesbian.
- IF YOUâRE A MINOR PLEASE BLOCK THE TAG #lgbt nsfw (I accept receiving nsfw asks as long as itâs not about men)
- Hereâs the link of my sapphic server on discord (lesbians and other sapphics, and also minors can join)
- Hereâs the link that explain very well why the âbi lesbianâ label is problematic.
- I talk about my own experiences, LGBTQ+ related issues, and my asks are always open to anyone who wants to talk/vent whatever.
- If you want to discuss anything that you donât really agree with me then itâs okay, as long as youâre not being rude and prejudiced like people who usually want to argue with me are.
- Most posts are more focused on lesbianism, but thereâs a few about the queer community and other identities. So even if you want to talk about other identities my blog is also a safe space for that.
- My dms are always available
- Thereâs some people who use specific emojis whenever they send anon asks, so if you want to do that so I can know which anon Iâm talking to feel free to choose an emoji and do that! Emojis that were used already: âď¸đ§¸đđŤđđ˝đđĽŠđŚđŚđ¸đťđđśđŞťđąđşđĽđ¸đĽđđđ¸âď¸đŚ¤đď¸đ§ŹđŚđ
Tags:
- #lgbt nsfw : any post that contains nsfw content.
- #my experiences : posts about my own experiences regarding my sexuality/identity.
- #screenshots : self explanatory.
- #lesbian characters :every character that is canon lesbian.
- #famous lesbians : every celebrity who identifies as lesbian
- #lesbian rep : it has both lesbian characters and famous lesbians
- #stephanie talks : basically all my posts I vent about stuff are tagged with this.
- #stephanie answers : all my asks.
- #not lgbt related : all posts that are not related to the community.
- #comphet : experiences/issues related to comphet and understanding more fake attraction vs real attraction.
- #cultural shock : just me talking about differences of my cultures with others.
- #long post : self explanatory
- #ask game tag : reblogs of ask games in case anyone wants to do it.
- #ask game : answers from ask games.
- #queer terms : all my posts that I explain the meaning of LGBTQ+ terms.
- #pride flags : posts showing pride flags and their meanings.
- #tik toks : videos usually lgbtq+ related.
- #lesbian experiences : my experiences of being a lesbian.
- #queer rep : posts about characters and movies/shows/books with queer characters.
- #queer tropes
- #latin america : posts about anything to do with being Latin-American and living in LatAm.
- #queer latines : queer representation of Latin Americans.
- #lgbt recs : my recommendations of LGBTQ+ movies, shows and books.
- #men being men : men being stupid or incredibly shitty.
- #anon : anon asks.
- #source: patronsaintoflesbians : all videos related to lesbian experiences and comphet.
- #femme : posts related to femmes.
- #femme4femme
- #âbi lesbiansâ : posts to talk about âmspec lesbiansâ and men identifying as lesbians.
- #american moment
- #my headcanons : characters I headcanon as lesbians (some of them are headcanons sent by other people)
- #male crushes : this will be tagged whenever I receive asks that involve male crushes like celebrities or fictional characters
- #lgbt facts : series of posts about random lgbt facts that are not about the US.
- #tw corrective rape
- #free blocklist : exposing blogs that go against my dni list for anyone interested.
- #famous tropes : this will be a series of popular movie/book/show tropes that are prejudiced/problematic.
- #lesbian culture : series of posts about what I think is lesbian culture (pls theyâre not supposed to be taken seriously, itâs just for fun).
- #my crushes: fictional characters and celebrities I had/have a crush on.
- #my favs : my favorite canon lesbian characters
-#brazilian rep: famous brazilians
-#favorite male characters
-#stephanie listens to : songs I recommend (usually latin american songs)
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Apparently itâs common for men here in Brazil to invite women for a date and if the woman doesnât want to have sex with them they ask for the woman to pay them backâŚ
Theyâre literally treating women as sex workers, and once they donât get what they want they act like this.
People seriously donât know this? Itâs supposed to be so simple to understand that sexuality is based on attraction, therefore even if you choose not to engage in relationships with men but are still attracted to them itâs pretty simple to understand what labels fit youâŚ
I personally just canât relate with women who idolize men. Iâm obviously not talking about doing this in a romantic/sexual way, just idolizing in general.
As long as thereâs a woman for me to idolize, Iâll always prefer to idolize a woman lol
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I have a friend who a few years ago realized sheâs actually bi (until then she had identified as lesbian) and I canât help but notice that now that sheâs seeing a guy it feels like she tries to find ways to relate with me and another friend of ours whoâs also a lesbian.
For context her mother is incredibly homophobic.
Sheâs said stuff like âwell my mom isnât gonna be entirely happy because heâs not catholic and heâs vegetarianâ (this was supposed to be in a light tone).
Iâm sorry but thatâs not comparable at all.
Just to clarify sheâs an amazing friend, this was just supposed to be a vent post because itâs tiring to see people desperately trying to relate and compare things that arenât comparable.
Unsurprisingly men are hating on Supergirl and trying to hide their misogyny under the argument of âit was just a bad movieâ as if weâre stupid to believe this lol
The actress has been getting hate way before the movieâs release. This is ALWAYS the same behavior whenever we talk about movies with female protagonists â especially in the superhero genre.
The movie not being good doesnât give you a free pass to bully, hate and harass the actor.
If the argument âit was a bad movieâ were actually true then SO MANY male led superhero movies would get this amount of hate too, like most of the Thor moviesâŚ
The difference is that it doesnât matter if a movie led by a man sucks, they still make a lot more of them. Meanwhile when it comes to female protagonists is so hard to get this kind of representation, and when we get it the mass hate often leads to less interest in making more of them.
While I do think transphobia is a huge problem in the lesbian community, where is the same energy to call out transphobia when it comes to other communities?
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Theyâre simply punished earlier. Theyâre blamed from a young age. Theyâre sexualized earlier. Theyâre also expected to cope with all that since theyâre only children.
Labels are only strict if they donât describe you. Because Iâve never felt freer than when I realized I wasnât bi, that Iâve always been a lesbian.
Being strict or not isnât about inclusion or exclusion of [insert gender], itâs about how you relate with that label.
âNot all menâ yet almost every girl/woman has had a bad experience with them.
And by âbad experienceâ Iâm not talking about getting rejected, disappointed or anything like that. Itâs literal crimes. Almost every/woman has been sexually assaulted, harassed, catcalled, etcâŚ
While yes us lesbians really are held to a different standard and we cannot talk minimally about men without our sexuality being invalidated, a lot of you really do talk about men in a romantic/sexual way that it really looks bad for the rest of us lol
Maybe donât do this while publicly identifying as lesbian, you know? Just maybeâŚ
As someone whoâs currently studying more adoption process and foster care, etc, and as someone who would also like to adopt someday, itâs so annoying and weird to see many people being against adoption at all.
Many who have this opinion are adoptees themselves, and while their lived experiences and feelings over this are totally valid, itâs absurd to base this over your personal experience.
Obviously there are different cases and not every child/teen wants to be adopted (or perhaps adoption is not always the best option). The problem is being against adoption in general, like youâre not even considering not everyone is the same as you.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions but when you share something so irresponsible online it definitely needs to be addressed⌠You can completely talk about your own personal experiences without generalizing.
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âStop sexualizing kidsâ but theyâre the same people who see a boy and a girl befriending and instantly assume theyâll date or that one of them has a crush on the other;
âStop sexualizing kidsâ but theyâre the same people who donât care about kids being victim of SA because theyâre probably the same ones wanting to force a child to have the child of their rapist;
âStop sexualizing kidsâ but theyâre the same people who think is so funny those shirts saying âwomanizerâ for boys;
âStop sexualizing kidsâ but theyâre the same people who say âsheâll be troubleâ about a girl, meaning that sheâs gonna get boysâ attention;
âStop sexualizing kidsâ but if itâs a boy talking about his crush on a girl or vice versa, they donât see any problem;
Youâre not worried about the sexualization of children, youâre worried about the fact that not only heterosexual kids exist.
Itâs completely normal and common for kids to have crushes (or not). That does not mean theyâre being sexualized. Whatâs not normal is to shove those things I listed down on peopleâs throats (especially on kids).
If you think like this not only youâre a homophobe, but youâre simply ignorant about how sexuality works and just because thereâs the word sex in it, it doesnât literally mean sex.
When women hate men what we usually do is distance ourselves from men, some of us stop having relationships with them, everything and anything to keep them away.
When men hate women what they usually do is not leave us alone. They stalk us, harass us, rape us.
I hate when people act like those are the same thing. As if women hating men and men hating women are comparable at all.
