5’4 Lesbian

- DNI if you’re: homophobe, racist, misogynistic, TERF/radfem, lesbophobe, transphobe, biphobe, aphobe, or if you’re (or support) someone who is a “bi lesbian”, “bi gay” or someone who is a man and identifies as lesbian.

- IF YOU’RE A MINOR PLEASE BLOCK THE TAG #lgbt nsfw (I accept receiving nsfw asks as long as it’s not about men)

- Here’s the link of my sapphic server on discord (lesbians and other sapphics, and also minors can join)

- Here’s the link that explain very well why the “bi lesbian” label is problematic.

- I talk about my own experiences, LGBTQ+ related issues, and my asks are always open to anyone who wants to talk/vent whatever.

- If you want to discuss anything that you don’t really agree with me then it’s okay, as long as you’re not being rude and prejudiced like people who usually want to argue with me are.

- Most posts are more focused on lesbianism, but there’s a few about the queer community and other identities. So even if you want to talk about other identities my blog is also a safe space for that.

- My dms are always available

- There’s some people who use specific emojis whenever they send anon asks, so if you want to do that so I can know which anon I’m talking to feel free to choose an emoji and do that! Emojis that were used already: ⛄️🧸🍓🫐🍄👽🍎🥩🦇🦈🐸🌻🌙🐶🪻🐱🌺💥🌸🥀📛🌝🎸☔️🦤🖍️🧬🦋🎀

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The projection is actually insane. As if radfems have a monopoly on discussing those topics.

Genuinely infuriating!

I wish I could say I don’t believe this but honestly coming from them I believe in anything lol

They really act like they’re the only ones who hold the truth about misogyny and lesbophobia as if they’re the only ones who face those prejudices LMFAO

Boymom usually means something negative. It’s not simply any mother of a boy, it’s toxic and misogynistic mothers who see in their sons almost like a replacement of a partner, to the point of having almost incestuous feelings for their sons. Or mothers who think so highly of their sons, who treat them as if they can do no wrong, as if they’re special and everyone else is ordinary, making them think they can do anything and have absolutely no consequences, ending up raising the most toxic and misogynistic men.

Yes they do. Just because they don’t add the word hetero in it doesn’t mean they don’t make their sexuality their entire personality.

They do every time they discuss if the man should pay for dates or not.

They do every time we hear yet another case of femicide of a boyfriend/fiancé/husband (or an ex) killing his female partner (or ex).

But when it comes to mlm/wlw, specifically the ones where CLEARLY there’s queerbaiting involved, it’s kinda shitty to act all like “this ship is absurd, it doesn’t make any sense, y’all are crazy”.

This seems so much like a heterosexual behavior and as someone who clearly haven’t got a clue about what’s queerbaiting and queer coding.

I’m talking about ships like swanqueen, supercorp, wolfstar, etc.

People are not shoving a ship down your throat, people are simply trying to make you understand the implications of queerbaiting and you want to act all childish and not want to listen because you only see that as someone else trying to force you to ship the characters.

A lot of you are just performative. You know the whole “white savior” thing? You’re just like that with minorities in general, especially Americans. And I feel like a lot of you are like that because you feel so progressive for being democrat when that’s not even a real left wing party.

When it comes to the global south many of you don’t act that different from people like Trump, you just hide it better.

1) By using homophobia, not only you lose the right to fight back because fighting prejudice with prejudice isn’t right nor the answer, but also homophobia is directly rooted in misogyny. So you’re basically trying to fight misogyny by also being misogynistic;

Gays and lesbians are not attracted to the opposite gender at all. So many of us have been kicked out, isolated from our families, taken to fucking conversion therapy/camps, lesbians are the main victims of corrective rape, homosexuality historically has been treated as a disease/disorder, not to mention how it’s literally a crime just to be who we are in so many countries.

1) A lot of Americans say stupid shit out of ignorance, because they don’t really have subjects in school to study about other countries history;

2) A lot of Europeans say stupid shit out of pure hatred and evilness because they’re taught this brainwashed version of what their country did to others and as if the fact that their country’s wealth came from exploitation and violence doesn’t matter.

For a healthy relationship it’s great if your partner is also your friend, but I wouldn’t advise to be your only friend. This so easily could turn into emotional dependence, and this isn’t good for any of you.

I also wouldn’t advise to date someone of the same circle of friends, especially if it’s your only one. The friend group most likely will choose a side or always be kinda walking on eggshells with you and your partner. Not to mention perhaps you want to vent about your relationship with someone and doing this with someone who’s also friends with your partner isn’t really good.