- DNI if you’re: homophobe, racist, misogynistic, TERF/radfem, lesbophobe, transphobe, biphobe, aphobe, or if you’re (or support) someone who is a “bi lesbian”, “bi gay” or someone who is a man and identifies as lesbian.
- IF YOU’RE A MINOR PLEASE BLOCK THE TAG #lgbt nsfw (I accept receiving nsfw asks as long as it’s not about men)
- Here’s the link of my sapphic server on discord (lesbians and other sapphics, and also minors can join)
- Here’s the link that explain very well why the “bi lesbian” label is problematic.
- I talk about my own experiences, LGBTQ+ related issues, and my asks are always open to anyone who wants to talk/vent whatever.
- If you want to discuss anything that you don’t really agree with me then it’s okay, as long as you’re not being rude and prejudiced like people who usually want to argue with me are.
- Most posts are more focused on lesbianism, but there’s a few about the queer community and other identities. So even if you want to talk about other identities my blog is also a safe space for that.
- My dms are always available
- There’s some people who use specific emojis whenever they send anon asks, so if you want to do that so I can know which anon I’m talking to feel free to choose an emoji and do that! Emojis that were used already: ⛄️🧸🍓🫐🍄👽🍎🥩🦇🦈🐸🌻🌙🐶🪻🐱🌺💥🌸🥀📛🌝🎸☔️🦤🖍️🧬🦋🎀
Tags:
- #lgbt nsfw : any post that contains nsfw content.
- #my experiences : posts about my own experiences regarding my sexuality/identity.
- #screenshots : self explanatory.
- #lesbian characters :every character that is canon lesbian.
- #famous lesbians : every celebrity who identifies as lesbian
- #lesbian rep : it has both lesbian characters and famous lesbians
- #stephanie talks : basically all my posts I vent about stuff are tagged with this.
- #stephanie answers : all my asks.
- #not lgbt related : all posts that are not related to the community.
- #comphet : experiences/issues related to comphet and understanding more fake attraction vs real attraction.
- #cultural shock : just me talking about differences of my cultures with others.
- #long post : self explanatory
- #ask game tag : reblogs of ask games in case anyone wants to do it.
- #ask game : answers from ask games.
- #queer terms : all my posts that I explain the meaning of LGBTQ+ terms.
- #pride flags : posts showing pride flags and their meanings.
- #tik toks : videos usually lgbtq+ related.
- #lesbian experiences : my experiences of being a lesbian.
- #queer rep : posts about characters and movies/shows/books with queer characters.
- #queer tropes
- #latin america : posts about anything to do with being Latin-American and living in LatAm.
- #queer latines : queer representation of Latin Americans.
- #lgbt recs : my recommendations of LGBTQ+ movies, shows and books.
- #men being men : men being stupid or incredibly shitty.
- #anon : anon asks.
- #source: patronsaintoflesbians : all videos related to lesbian experiences and comphet.
- #femme : posts related to femmes.
- #femme4femme
- #’bi lesbians’ : posts to talk about “mspec lesbians” and men identifying as lesbians.
- #american moment
- #my headcanons : characters I headcanon as lesbians (some of them are headcanons sent by other people)
- #male crushes : this will be tagged whenever I receive asks that involve male crushes like celebrities or fictional characters
- #lgbt facts : series of posts about random lgbt facts that are not about the US.
- #tw corrective rape
- #free blocklist : exposing blogs that go against my dni list for anyone interested.
- #famous tropes : this will be a series of popular movie/book/show tropes that are prejudiced/problematic.
- #lesbian culture : series of posts about what I think is lesbian culture (pls they’re not supposed to be taken seriously, it’s just for fun).
- #my crushes: fictional characters and celebrities I had/have a crush on.
- #my favs : my favorite canon lesbian characters
-#brazilian rep: famous brazilians
-#favorite male characters
-#stephanie listens to : songs I recommend (usually latin american songs)
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Sapphics who’re planning to get in a relationship:
For a healthy relationship it’s great if your partner is also your friend, but I wouldn’t advise to be your only friend. This so easily could turn into emotional dependence, and this isn’t good for any of you.
I also wouldn’t advise to date someone of the same circle of friends, especially if it’s your only one. The friend group most likely will choose a side or always be kinda walking on eggshells with you and your partner. Not to mention perhaps you want to vent about your relationship with someone and doing this with someone who’s also friends with your partner isn’t really good.
It’s so important to be friends with other people besides your partner.
Be careful with someone who might slowly make you distance yourself from your friends. I know this happens way more often with m/f couples but it’s still important to be careful. So be aware of signs such as someone who basically forces themselves into you and your friends hanging out to the point you don’t hang out only with your friends.
I also wouldn’t really advise to date your best friend because if you two ever break up you’d lose both your partner and your best friend at once.
Can I just say how ridiculous it is the whole “ragebait” thing?
Because one thing is saying something purposefully stupid but unharmful just to piss people off
It’s a whole other thing being openly prejudiced and when people rightfully get mad you pull this card. Prejudice isn’t something to joke about, especially when you’re not part of the minority you’re making fun of.
The fact that this behavior seem to come from white cishet men says a lot.
People use male friendships and female friendships to be homophobic in very different ways.
When it comes to male friendships they can barely make any physical contact without homophobes mocking them or claiming they must be gay because apparently men cannot be affectionate with each other in a platonic way.
Meanwhile female friendships while it’s acceptable to be affectionate with each other, it’s SO “acceptable” that people use this to contribute to sapphic erasure and to invalidate wlw relationships.
It’s funny to see a misogynistic man’s reaction to being called a potential abuser because most of the time he will call you a whore, slut, bitch, etc.
1) Those are not crimes lol you really think being a criminal is compared with being any of those things?
2) It’s 2026 and you still think it’s more shameful to be a sex worker than being miserable enough that you have to PAY for someone to have sex with you?
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There’s this brazilian woman I follow on tiktok and ig that makes LGBT content especially wlw (focusing on her relationship).
And idk she always uses the word “sapphic” to refer to herself and it got me thinking…
Unless she genuinely identifies only as sapphic, I feel like someone who has a considerable amount of followers like her should be more careful about this because it leads to more erasure of sapphic identities (bi, pan, lesbian, etc) when you never use the term that you actually identify as.
If you’re a lesbian this behavior only contributes to people being afraid to use the word lesbian, if you’re bi/pan it only contributes to people also being afraid to use those terms and it feels like you don’t think those identities are as “queer” as homosexual identities…
In Brazil in some cities there’s women only cars in subways. That should be a good thing (although the fact that it needs to exist obviously isn’t good), but apparently so many men go to those cars to the point that sometimes the regular cars are less filled with men than the women-only ones.
I’m sorry but it’s safe to assume those men are abusers because what’s the point of knowingly walk in a place YOU KNOW it’s supposed to be a safe space for women?
If you as a man genuinely think women have it easier you’re either incredibly ignorant and naive or you’re part of statistics that prove why women feel unsafe around men.
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It’s not cool as you think it is when you’re a woman with a boyfriend and constantly shit on men (even your boyfriend) just to get validation from lesbians…
It’s just ridiculous lol it just seems you’re desperate for lesbians attention like we’re some high school club. Not to mention if you hate men — including your boyfriend — that much, why are you still with him?
Apparently it’s common for men here in Brazil to invite women for a date and if the woman doesn’t want to have sex with them they ask for the woman to pay them back…
They’re literally treating women as sex workers, and once they don’t get what they want they act like this.
People seriously don’t know this? It’s supposed to be so simple to understand that sexuality is based on attraction, therefore even if you choose not to engage in relationships with men but are still attracted to them it’s pretty simple to understand what labels fit you…
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I personally just can’t relate with women who idolize men. I’m obviously not talking about doing this in a romantic/sexual way, just idolizing in general.
As long as there’s a woman for me to idolize, I’ll always prefer to idolize a woman lol
