- DNI if you’re: homophobe, racist, misogynistic, TERF/radfem, lesbophobe, transphobe, biphobe, aphobe, or if you’re (or support) someone who is a “bi lesbian”, “bi gay” or someone who is a man and identifies as lesbian.
- IF YOU’RE A MINOR PLEASE BLOCK THE TAG #lgbt nsfw (I accept receiving nsfw asks as long as it’s not about men)
- Here’s the link of my sapphic server on discord (lesbians and other sapphics, and also minors can join)
- Here’s the link that explain very well why the “bi lesbian” label is problematic.
- I talk about my own experiences, LGBTQ+ related issues, and my asks are always open to anyone who wants to talk/vent whatever.
- If you want to discuss anything that you don’t really agree with me then it’s okay, as long as you’re not being rude and prejudiced like people who usually want to argue with me are.
- Most posts are more focused on lesbianism, but there’s a few about the queer community and other identities. So even if you want to talk about other identities my blog is also a safe space for that.
- My dms are always available
- There’s some people who use specific emojis whenever they send anon asks, so if you want to do that so I can know which anon I’m talking to feel free to choose an emoji and do that! Emojis that were used already: ⛄️🧸🍓🫐🍄👽🍎🥩🦇🦈🐸🌻🌙🐶🪻🐱🌺💥🌸🥀📛🌝🎸☔️🦤🖍️🧬🦋🎀
Tags:
- #lgbt nsfw : any post that contains nsfw content.
- #my experiences : posts about my own experiences regarding my sexuality/identity.
- #screenshots : self explanatory.
- #lesbian characters :every character that is canon lesbian.
- #famous lesbians : every celebrity who identifies as lesbian
- #lesbian rep : it has both lesbian characters and famous lesbians
- #stephanie talks : basically all my posts I vent about stuff are tagged with this.
- #stephanie answers : all my asks.
- #not lgbt related : all posts that are not related to the community.
- #comphet : experiences/issues related to comphet and understanding more fake attraction vs real attraction.
- #cultural shock : just me talking about differences of my cultures with others.
- #long post : self explanatory
- #ask game tag : reblogs of ask games in case anyone wants to do it.
- #ask game : answers from ask games.
- #queer terms : all my posts that I explain the meaning of LGBTQ+ terms.
- #pride flags : posts showing pride flags and their meanings.
- #tik toks : videos usually lgbtq+ related.
- #lesbian experiences : my experiences of being a lesbian.
- #queer rep : posts about characters and movies/shows/books with queer characters.
- #queer tropes
- #latin america : posts about anything to do with being Latin-American and living in LatAm.
- #queer latines : queer representation of Latin Americans.
- #lgbt recs : my recommendations of LGBTQ+ movies, shows and books.
- #men being men : men being stupid or incredibly shitty.
- #anon : anon asks.
- #source: patronsaintoflesbians : all videos related to lesbian experiences and comphet.
- #femme : posts related to femmes.
- #femme4femme
- #’bi lesbians’ : posts to talk about “mspec lesbians” and men identifying as lesbians.
- #american moment
- #my headcanons : characters I headcanon as lesbians (some of them are headcanons sent by other people)
- #male crushes : this will be tagged whenever I receive asks that involve male crushes like celebrities or fictional characters
- #lgbt facts : series of posts about random lgbt facts that are not about the US.
- #tw corrective rape
- #free blocklist : exposing blogs that go against my dni list for anyone interested.
- #famous tropes : this will be a series of popular movie/book/show tropes that are prejudiced/problematic.
- #lesbian culture : series of posts about what I think is lesbian culture (pls they’re not supposed to be taken seriously, it’s just for fun).
- #my crushes: fictional characters and celebrities I had/have a crush on.
- #my favs : my favorite canon lesbian characters
-#brazilian rep: famous brazilians
-#favorite male characters
-#stephanie listens to : songs I recommend (usually latin american songs)
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I have no idea how we’re in 2026 and we still don’t have a term (at least a wildly known one) specifically for prejudice when it comes to sapphics.
I’m talking about recognizing that there is a specific prejudice when you’re a woman/fem-aligned person attracted to women/fem-aligned people.
No, lesbophobia isn’t the right one. If we want to treat lesbianism and other identities like bisexuality and pansexuality as unique and separate identities, we shouldn’t be using lesbophobia.
Homophobia technically fits but it doesn’t fully acknowledge the misogyny rooted in this specific form of homophobia.
Hey! I’m going to a Juneteenth sapphic party for sapphics alone without any friends? How do I navigate it? I’ve been to only one thing alone and it was good but I still get a bit anxious and worry about what others think. (I even made scenerios in my mind like ‘I want to make out with a girl’ but never had?) what should I do?
Hii!
I always recommend trying to find other people who are also alone and try to make conversation with them. I think that’s the least scary way to try to make some friends (or perhaps even find a date).
Is there any group or anything like that to talk with people who’re going to that party? Sometimes whoever is behind those parties create something for sapphics to get to know each other like a post for them to interact or anything like that
If you’re a man that every opportunity you get you silence SA victims and blame the victim or in any way try to invalidate what they’ve been through, you shouldn’t feel offended if women see you as a potential abuser considering the way you act.
I see so many lesbians and sapphics talk about how some hetero women react when they tell them they’re attracted to women by assuming they MUST be attracted to them but now I’m curious to know if the same thing happens with gay and bi men when it comes to hetero men lol
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Something I talked about with my therapist that I’ve noticed that I’ve done and that people might mistake it for me being unfriendly or anything like that is whenever I coincidentally encounter a friend of mine somewhere and they’re with someone else.
As someone who has adhd when this happens what usually is in my mind is that my attention is entirely focused on my friend and greeting them so I’m so focused that I honestly either don’t notice or forget they’re not alone so it’s happened that I ended up not acknowledging the other person and it might have seemed like I was being rude when that wasn’t my intention.
Even though it’s harder to find cases where the woman is the one who is absent and abandons her child and the man becomes a single father, what I’ve noticed is that whenever that’s the case people praise the man as if he’s a saint for raising his child (which is the bare minimum).
But when it’s a woman doing the same thing, those same people instead of praising her and all that, they judge her for choosing the wrong man to be the father of her child…
As a femme lesbian, do you get doubted a lot being lesbian? I’m only 27 and times I don’t know the right way to be queer. Most of the time people don’t think I’m queer and I always known I was lesbian when I was younger. I’m glad I came a long way out of that self doubt people doubting I’m a lesbian but it can be annoying. How to combat this?
It used to be worse, but honestly what actually helped avoiding people to doubt my sexuality or be surprised that I’m a lesbian are 2 things:
1) I’m surrounded by other lgbt people and people I know are supportive;
2) But also if anyone I don’t know questions something related with my sexuality (like men trying to flirt), most of the time I don’t say I’m a lesbian, I simply try saying something else to get out of the situation because it’s not worth getting mad over homophobes/lesbophobes.
A lot of people misunderstand (or purposely ignore) how just because we have words for prejudice specifically against lesbians (lesbophobia) and trans women (transmisogyny) it necessarily means people don’t think gay men and trans men don’t face unique struggles and prejudices. You do, and using the terms homophobia and transphobia to explain those prejudices doesn’t diminish what you face.
The difference is that lesbians and trans women face 2 forms of systemic oppression; homophobia and misogyny (lesbians) and transphobia and misogyny (trans women). Besides that, we also face a third form of oppression that’s rooted in the mix of those 2; lesbophobia (when it comes to lesbians) and transmisogyny (when it comes to trans women).
It should be obvious but the reason why we have those 2 terms is that we’re not only oppressed because we’re homosexual (lesbians) or trans (trans women), but because we’re also oppressed for being women.
Therefore gay men and trans men do face homophobia and transphobia respectively, but it’s just a fact that they’re not oppressed for being men, they’re oppressed for being homosexual and/or trans.
This isn’t meant to say “y’all can’t have a term specifically for yourselves”, it’s just meant to make y’all acknowledge this + not treat as if being men makes you oppressed like a lot of people think.
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My brother recently became single and he talked with me a bit about trying to go out more to meet other women and about his standards when looking for a girlfriend and it’s so weird how men are socialized to feel possessive of their partners, to be jealous over everything and anything…
He told me one of his criteria is that he would like someone who has a low body count or has never dated anyone. I asked him why and he simply said he would be uncomfortable with someone with a higher body count/more experienced but couldn’t tell me why. Then I told him if that was his criteria women also have the right to not be with him due to his body count.
We don’t talk enough about how men from minorities use they’re [insert minority] to be absurdly misogynistic.
Gay and bi men thinking they get a free pass to be misogynistic just because they aren’t heterosexual.
Trans men being misogynistic - especially with trans women - and either thinking they get to be shitty simply because they’ve been victims of misogyny or because being misogynistic will make them more manly.
Men of color generalizing women by putting “white” before a very obvious misogynistic sentence meanwhile they’re the same men who don’t say anything when it comes to complaining about white men or stay silent when it’s about defending women of color.
Neurodivergent men justifying their misogynistic behavior by using their neurodivergence.
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Whenever I see women complaining about how much they hate being a woman it’s infuriating that most of the time the reasons they bring up are usually caused by men.
Honestly I don’t blame them for feeling like that. I just can’t relate because I know very well most of the reasons they hate being a woman are rooted in how misogynistic society is.
