#toby rants

hey chat, friendly reminder that CDDs cannot form other than from trauma !! and guess what, alters are apart of CDDSs!!! which means that no, u cant have alters or be a system without a CDD ^_^ how about we stop comparing ur own experiences to disabled people's experiences, and acting like u know better about their disorder (that u don't have btw) than they do!!

or, better yet, how about u stop getting mad at said disabled people, and calling them nazis, bigots, racists, ableists, etc, for invading OUR spaces that clearly weren't meant for u, and instead sticking to ur own spaces!!!

oh yeah, and instead of getting all pissy and throwing a fit for disabled people calling u out for ur obvious ableism, AND supporting ableists, maybe u should just fuck off and learn to respect their DNIs and boundaries!!! it's not that difficult ^_^ just because we tag our shit with a debate tag, does NOT mean we wanna pointlessly argue with people who constantly attack you and go out of their way for defending ableists (and also spreading misinformation about CDDs!!)

while we're on this topic, DNI lists absolutely are valid, and should be respected no matter what. it doesn't matter if someone tags their stuff as syscourse, or another debate tag. boundaries should be respected no matter what. that person does NOT have to uselessly debate with stupid people who obviously have no idea how disorders work. if u come onto my blog and argue with me about stupid shit, and i tell u repeatedly to fuck off and block me, how about u actually listen and learn to use the block button!!!

Stop giving people shit for role-playing the villains. It doesn't make THEM villains and it certainly does not mean they condone villainous behaviour.

This kind of juvenile pseudo-justice idealism is putting an unnecessarily massive strain on the roleplayer community and I'm honestly getting really sick of it.

I play a villain on another blog and I've had my share of bitchiness and you know what? Funnily enough despite writing a murderer for over a year I actually haven't killed anyone. Shocker.

Let people write the complex characters. Let people write the villains and the abusive characters. If you don't like it, don't follow them? Simple as that. These characters are needed for our writing to be authentic and have some god damn depth to our plots.

Imagine the film without the villain.

Boring right?

(I’ve read Midnight Strangers, SUPERCRITICAL, Double Hearted and currently making my way thru When Strays Find A Home)