#thetaylorfiles

I’m not a Kaylor shipper. I’m not an anti. I am someone who is here to find a middle ground. 

I want this blog to serve as a place where people can call out both sides. I welcome discussion regarding the toxicity of the “Kaylor ship” and blogs such as TTB who promote damaging lies. I also welcome middle ground, rational Kaylors and ex Kaylor shippers who want a place to talk about their opinions and experiences. I am open to any good faith, honest conversation. Any hate or personal attacks will be deleted so don’t bother.

Above all else, I value truth, logic, and fairness from both ends. I want to make it clear that I do not believe that Karlie Kloss and Taylor Swift are in a secret relationship, nor do I believe that everything you see is what you get in the entertainment industry. I know better than that.

Who am I? - I live in a big city in the USA. I work in PR. I am a gay woman who has been a casual fan of Taylor Swift since Speak Now and a bigger fan since Folklore. 

Are you an ex-Kaylor? - No, I have never been a shipper. 

Do you think Josh/Karlie are a fake relationship or bearding contract? - I highly doubt it.

Do you think Taylor/Joe is a fake relationship? - I doubt it. 

Do you think Taylor and Karlie ever dated? - I think there is a possibility. However, if they did, it is mostly definitely not something that is currently going on and insane theories about matching patterns, Instagram captions, and emoji choices on social media posts are delusional. 

Do you think Taylor is gay or straight? - I do not claim to know her sexuality, and will not.  I do think there is a chance that Taylor is not straight, and I do acknowledge and recognize the queer themes in her music. All of her public and known relationships have been with men, so I will not ever claim that she is a secret lesbian who is sending messages to TTB.

I am responding to @thetaylorfiles on this Taylor-related side blog. My past asks were under my main for anyone that might be confused. I wrote this as a post, because it’s so long.

First off, I really appreciate and love you and your blog as well. I think you're the only big ask blog that talks about Kaylor, doesn't believe, but is nice and respectful to Kaylors. I know you acknowledge when you've failed in doing that, and I think that's unusual on the internet--apologizing and trying to amend mistakes. I commend you for that! Also I'm really sorry this is so long.

Here is why I still think Gaylor is possible and disagree with the @thetaylorfiles​:

I was looking for the posts Taylor liked on Tumblr about being an ally, but I was having a hard time scrolling back and searching. Still, her language in the response post was "an ally." She did not explicitly place herself outside of the community.

I'll reiterate my opinion--liking posts does NOT mean that much to me. Taylor could agree with the sentiment of a post and not the exact language. You yourself have said the likes of various people related to these Kaylor conspiracies is over inflated with importance. Why do SOME of Taylor's like suddenly prove she said something explicit when she did not? If we follow that logic, then her "kissgate" likes the night of said event proves she at least viewed Karlie as a romantic love interest.

I also want to gently remind you that Taylor LOVES being particular with her word choices, symbolism, and PR image. At the moment, it appears she has a lot of control over what she directly says, and I think "an ally" and not "as an ally" was intentional. I also think she KNOWS people would criticize her for capitalizing on Pride by releasing YNTCD during pride month. A music video that she is IN THE CENTER of the Taylor park community full of out LGBTQ+ celebs...and Taylor...and Ryan Reynolds lives outside of it. The sheer symbolism of that video for me is a direct message from Taylor, whereas her Tumblr likes are indirect and not seen by most of the general public.

Starting this in order to bring further light into the truth that Kaylor is not everything TayTaysBeard is brain washing others to believe. At this point it’s crossed a line that leads to attacks, reaches & inappropriately misleading many to what Taylor Swift’s life is actually that.