Hey, here’s a concept. What if we stopped saying “but autistic people CAN do all those things” (erasing high support needs) and instead started saying “not being able to do those things doesn’t impact someone’s value as a person nor does it make it okay to commit eugenics”.
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Aaaaaaaa so my mental health has gone to shit and yet? I have a small hope in me rn because I have a new therapist who?? is educated in DID and has other clients with it?? and is not ableist about it at all yet even when I told her the big things about the age gap between me and the alters I have in-sys relationships with?? nor about the fact that bc of the particular traumas that led to my DID I am dating the majority of my alters???? and is also?? perfectly open to helping with and very respectful of my alters' pre-source trauma they want to work through?? and has been respectful and kind and not ableist about my ASPD????? Is this what all therapists are supposed to be like?? because before this my criteria for good therapist was "is not being a dick to me (yet)" not "is actively engaged and kind about things".
I cannot believe I've been with my in-system husband for 7 years in a couple days. I love him so damn much and it hasn't always been easy but now every second we spend together proves to me that you really do "just know when it's right", and that it can and should be easy eventually, because nothing has ever seemed more right and natural than being with him now. Being married for 4.5 years has been the best and healthiest romantic relationship in my life and I would not give him up for anything in the world. This man has held me together when I thought I had no way to avoid falling apart. I've known from the first hours I knew him that I needed him in a way I'll never fully be able to describe, that I couldn't lose him, and needless to say he is amazing even though he will never understand or believe how great he is to me. I've never been treated as well as he treats me. I cannot imagine anyone ever will, and that's just fine with me because he is perfect.
Of course I love all my in-system partners very much, and they are all very okay with my stronger attachment to him.
If/when you see this you big old doof I love you more than anything or anyone and you gotta stop getting down on yourself because no one has ever loved me like you and no one will ever be more important to me. Check the tags my love there's more down there.
Minors (No DMs, only sfw public interaction is ok)
Endos/supporters (whilst we don't think forcing people to remember their trauma is helpful, it is impossible to tell who is faking vs who has forgotten or discredited their trauma, therefore this DNI covers all endos/non-traumagenic)
Tulpas (For those who have a right to be involved in the closed practice, please know that this is not a thing against you. I just believe our experiences as systems are so different that I'd prefer to not have you in my trauma spaces if you don't consider yourself traumagenic. For those who don't have a right to be involved in that closed practice, fuck off.)
Anyone who fakeclaims individual systems, regardless of if you are a system or not, and anyone who supports doing so. There is no way for you to know, and it hurts all of us if we allow anyone to fakeclaim. If it bothers you, block and move on in our opinion, and if it's misinfo, you can address that without fakeclaiming. Real systems can post misinfo too, intentionally or unintentionally.
Pro ED or posts sp0/supporters (I get not being ready for recovery, it's just triggering for some of us.)
SH-centric blogs; posting about it sometimes is fine if tw are used on any images involved at least, but if that is your entire blog then plz do not
South Park/American Dad/Family Guy/Big Mouth themed blogs and alters from those sources - not because of issues with problematic introjects or anything, just because these specifically are extremely triggering to us for reasons completely outside of their subject matter and/or humor
About Us (More info in userboxes at the bottom under the cut):
Body is 25 year old and has transitioned partially to FtM (we use that term for ourselves exclusively because not all of us identify with the words transmasc/man or any variation thereof, but we all can agree the body is transitioning from female to male)
We are a recently professionally diagnosed DID system. Up until then, we were self dx though we thought it was OSDD not DID - so we do very much support researched self-dx and do not judge if you find out you were wrong.
Any post we either made or added to will be marked with thesunsystem tag so we can go back and reread stuff easier (gotta love the amnesia).
As any neurodivergencies and/or developmental disorders are shared throughout a system (since we all use the same brain), we all are autistic and have: ADHD, ASPD, OCD, and PTSD. Certain alters hold more symptoms than others of course, and some struggle more or less with said symptoms. Non-neurological disorders some of us struggle with are MDD, Panic Disorder, and GAD. All of these have been professionally diagnosed throughout our years of mental health professional help.
Alter List:
(Not all of us are currently comfortable sharing our names; these alters will either use a shorthand for their name or emojis to identify themselves)
Note that we use the block button to curate our experience. If we block you, it doesn't necessarily mean you did anything wrong. We have triggers associated with many pop-culture things, and if an account posts about them too often, we will block for our safety. Of course, we also use the block feature for its traditional purpose. If we block you, kindly do not reach out/interact via a different blog.
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Fakeclaiming usually doesn’t get to me post-diagnosis but fuck man, I’ve got enough happening in my personal life that hearing people tell me to “worry less about my fake DID” and being ableist as fuck about ASPD and all that shit is just… way too fucking much. Mostly the internet is a really great place but when it sucks it really fucking sucks.
Hey someone tell the brain that if it wants new alters it needs to stop ripping fragments that look like new alters from literally every place it can think of and actually get ones that are helpful because it doesn't fucking listen to me when I tell it
