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THE WAR IS OVER.

The result of being in unhealthy relationships and situations for too long is the war it creates in your own mind.

Have you spent too much time wondering what you did wrong? What could you have done better? Why are they demeaning you, when all you were doing was your best?

Take a step back to observe the manipulative trick used in unhealthy, toxic, narcissistic relationships to convince you that you are the mad and bad one…

Here’s why they do it: In their warped sense of superiority, they believe they are faultless. In their eyes they are right. Even when you point out how it affects you, they will turn the tables and make it your fault. This will happen repeatedly until you ask yourself “Am I really the one to blame?” “Am I wrong?”

Let’s face it, we all have our triggers. Take some time to reflect on your own stuff and get brave to sort out those triggers so they no longer rule your life. And then assess whether you have been actually hanging out with an ass that’s intent on pushing your buttons so the conversation deflects away from their own self-reflection!

Projection is basically a mirror; it’s a reflection of what someone is carrying inside themselves. Toxic people are masters at projecting their issues and insecurities onto you. It’s truly mind-boggling to watch someone doing that. Please save your energy and don’t argue or fight against it; you will never be able to change someone’s willful perception of you. You just need to let them go and move on.

And love being this mad, proud, wise, complex and fallible you!

Comment “FREE” to agree you will never let another’s opinion of you stain your opinion of yourself!

PS. If you are ready to rule your World. If you are ready to let go of guilt, shame and control of the past…

If you are ready to inject some power into your spirit and declare full permission to rule with magnetic self-worth…

If you are ready to let that sense of liberation inside of you burst into a bigger destiny, full of success and personal freedom, creating a legacy of huge impact on those around you…