Modern AU of Jiang Cheng raising Jin Ling or Wei Wuxian raising A-Yuan, they absolutely would create a fuss that there is only stations to change diapers on the female bathroom.

Maybe this could apply to 3zun raising Jingyi modern version too. 🤔

Hi friend, 

1- Would It be technicaly possible for Madam Jin to be a Jin by blood?

Hmmmmm, no. If she was, she’d have to be like.... 5 times removed, at which point she’s not important enough to marry Jin Guangshan. It really unusual for people of the same last name to marry each other, doesn’t matter how distantly related. Whenever possible, please avoid. 

2- In the case of Wen Qing marrying outside the clan after Wen Ruohan's fall and getting a courtesy name, who would choose and give her the name? Herself? Wen Ning? Granny? Her spouse? An Elder from her spouse's family?

She doesn’t need a courtesy name. Getting married is certainly not an occasion that requires a courtesy name. Usually courtesy names are given by someone of authority and seniority; it should come from her own family if that’s possible. If that’s not possible, then someone from another family can step into this role, but it should be someone she respects and looks up to. Uhm... I wouldn’t use Granny Wen as the “authority” in this case, because it’s clear from CQL even though she’s an elderly person, she doesn’t have authority over Wen Qing. Rather, Wen Qing seems to be the more “prominent” lady of that subclan. 

An elder from her spouse’s family can be the person who gives her a courtesy name. 

ahhh I’m a week late for the happy holidays lmaooo

but thank you!!

How XXC and SL communicate? XXC can talk and SL can hear him, but SL can't answer back and XXC can't see the hand signals ;-;

theres a canon in universe telepathy spell. 

also you know you can sign into someone else’s hand. also also A-Qing is there and she interprets some times.

@themoonbunnyverse @theleakypen YOU KNOW, that makes a while hell of a lot of sense as to why I haven't been able to find anything. Thank you!! I guess I'll just use didi or rework the sentence

This is a very good point 🤔

madtomedgar said: also in camp jgy because if lxc can't see either then the only protection he has from nmj is gone

Very true, whether it’s objective truth or his perception, I think JGY sees Mingjue as a near constant physical threat. Plus he’s not the most trusting guy even when he can see

@paradife-loft said: third vote for jgy, because I don't think he'd be able to trust that nmj would remember well enough to take his lower cultivation level into account, and in a survival situation that could be Bad. (now I'm trying to come up w/ arguments for nmj though just bc I feel like there is Bias here XD)

OH, that is such a good point, holy shit. So, not only worried about Mingjue purposefully neglecting his safety because he doesn’t like or trust him, but also inadvertently doing it. Bahaha, maybe a little 😁 I think that Mingjue would be more vocal about it, like out loud asking if JGY is telling the truth or not trusting his judgement/skills (which would still make JGY Quite Displeased). 

@themoonbunnyverse said: The upsety spaguetty king is jgy. Trusting someone else with his wellbeing?? In this economy?? (Of course that's only If Nmj is the only one sighted. As you said, If it's lxc the sighted one, the truce would be that they could at least agree that they can trust Xichen)

jaiosdhgao IN THIS ECONOMY?? And totally, they could both grudgingly be unhappy about it if Xichen were in charge but they trust him and his skills implicitly, so that would be less fun

@justawanderingbabbit said: One possibility would be them being forced to trade off who sees. (Some device or the curse can be shifted.) Worse, it can't be given to the person who had it last, so it has to be passed on to each in turn. Neither NMJ nor JGY would want to trust the other and LXC would be disconsolate that they're having trouble cooperating.

Ahhh, thank you so much, I'll add this to my tool belt!! This will be so much easier than what I was doing ;-;

@rkivees said: 依心 Yīxīn is a go! (and also, a hint: when you’re not sure as to whether these names work or not, search for chinese public figures and go from there!)

AAAAH HOW FORTUITOUS! 😀 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING, I'M GLAD IT MADE YOUR DAY GOOD!!! ♥

@january-summers said: Oh wow, it's been so long since madam Jin's been to Lotus Pier, wouldn't it just be an absolute shame if one of the boards on one of the piers was rotten and she just happened to fall into the water into a patch of the grossest, slimiest, clingiest weeds? 😡 truly, just so tragic. 🔪 (also: OMG this was so good, it hurt me in the best way)

PFFFF THIS SEAWEED HAS MURDEROUS INTENT. It would DEFINITELY make Yanli sad but I can see 'Oh man, it ws just awful, her window got left open in a thunderstorm while she was out and her shoes and letters got all ruined how saaaad. AH, thank so muuuch, it was definitely a kicker 😓 Happier times on the way for sure, slow and steady!

@themoonbunnyverse said: Oh no. No no no no 😭 Why the timing had to be so bad? Ugh. Can I punch everyone in Koi Tower? (Minus Mianmian) The fact that Jin Guangshan did the wedding behind Madam Jin's back makes me wonder if Mingjue, Huaisang and Xichen even know that A-Yao is married. (I don't remember if they were at the wedding. I apologize If that's a dumb musing 😅)

OOF, just absolutely awful :((( Yessss, Mianmian escapes punching (and Koi Tower eventually, because holy shit), but Zixuan hasn't done anything that bad, except decline to renew the betrothal (and he has his reasons, we shall see when we hear from him!) And NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR MUSING! IT IS NEVER DUMB!! That is a good thought! They didn't exactly advertise it, but JGY definitely told Xichen who would have told Mingjue and Huaisang--and if JGY hadn't, it's been roughly about a month or 2 since they got married, so the gossip of a man being married out has spread.

It wasn't a secret to the world, just Madam Jin because she would put up the most fuss, so Jin Guangshan waited until she went on her trip and sprung the idea. (I get the feeling she needs lots of trips away from him 🙄)

They all have reasons they haven't been around (though Xichen has written, in his defense) and we may be hearing from them all soon 👀

@viterbofangirl said: ^^^ That's a good point about knowing about the wedding! But anyways AAAAAAAAA PLEASE LET'S GET SOME FLUFFY COMFORT UP IN HERE!!!