Dec 24, 2025
long winded discourse coming yet again from the same group of mutuals… anyway
#idc how many ways you guys try to rephrase that selfshipping is bad#plenty of selfshippers are having fun with their friends and interacting with their communities#the reason why you hate selfshipping is bc you don’t actually want to do it#but feel forced to bc selfshippers appear to be having fun#when selfshippers don’t actually need extrinsic motivation to#the answer is simple#stop pretending you like selfshipping and stay confident in how you want to do fandom#instead of trying desperately to narrative control and stay in the loop#no one has forced you guys to selfship ðŸ˜#simply stop and be okay with having a smaller reach where you can’t control other people’s as headcanons#every single time it’s a couched way to say ‘i’m mad people don’t care that I’m right’#people’s*#the time of handfeeding strangers headcanons is over! sorry!#cw discourse
