Love (Part 1)
I wasnât going to begin with this story, but this story is the entire reason that my Twitter and this blog exists. I guess itâs only fitting that I would post this story one year to the day that he said he loved me for the first time. It was one of the best days of my life. I actually cried when he looked me in the eyes and said âI love you too.â I was so happy. It was almost like that day was the day that I really started living; if anything, March 20, 2017 was the day that I stopped living. I will have to break this story down into parts because it is quite extensive.
October 4, 2015 is not a day that I will ever forget. It was that night that my life changed forever. 12 years earlier, I had graduated from high school. I went to one of the not-so-greatest high schools in the city, but I was an exceptional student. I won awards. My test scores were the stuff of legend. But I wasnât the only one. There was another student there whose academic achievements were also legend. It seemed there was a silent competition between us and I had never even heard his voice, or didnât remember it. We ran in entirely different circles. I had my friends, he had his. By the time we graduated, he was Mr. 4.0, destined to do something academically great in college. I was Miss 3.8, right behind him. If we had had the system which awards valedictorian and such, he would have been the Valedictorian; I would have been Salutatorian. When I found out that he had gotten a perfect GPA, I was mad it wasnât me. I cursed his name, but figured Iâd never see him again. I forgot that reunions exist.
On October 26, 2013, my class had its 10th reunion. I helped plan it. Iâm sure that I saw him that night, but I wasnât paying attention to him or anyone else really. By then, I had lived a lot of life. I had gone through college, gotten married, gotten two Bachelors degree, had a miscarriage, gotten divorced, dated some guys, made some mistakes, gotten a Masters degree. So when someone told me later that he had been at the reunion, I didnât even pay attention. Remember, he was the guy that was always one step ahead of me academically. I didnât know what he had done since graduating high school. He was just some guy I went to high school with. October 4, 2015 changed all of that.
In July 2015, I had quit a crappy job working contracted security and entered into the Corrections world. On October 4, 2015, with less than 3 months Corrections experience under my belt, I was scheduled off of my normal shift â third â to be on loan to second shift. I remember vividly sitting in our camera room watching the monitors and hearing the âpingâ of Facebook messenger pop up on my phone. I recognized the name of the person messaging me. It was HIM. It started off simple enough. He told me congratulations for getting a job in corrections. I told him where I worked and he said that he had been there before on official business. I asked him if he was a paramedic because we got tons in and out all the time. He informed me that he was a police officer and had had to make some runs to where I work.
Needless to say, I was stunned. The high school nerd became a cop? WTF. He then sent me a picture of himself sitting in his patrol carâŚand my heart justâŚstopped. What I saw was the most beautiful thing Iâd ever seen in my life. It was him, but it didnât look like him. No glasses. No sideburns. With the cutest little smirk ever. I couldnât believe how much he had changed. Within a few minutes of the conversation, he remarked that since we worked in the same division, maybe he could take me to lunch sometime and that if we needed anything while he was on duty to give him a shout. I donât know if he was just trying to play it cool or what, but it worked. I went out to smoke that night amazed. The high school nerd was messaging me and flirting with me. I was in shock but I had the biggest smile on my face. I got his phone number that night and he got mine.
A few days later, I was on my normal shift and he mentioned that he got off work at 11:30pm. He asked me if Iâd like him to come up to meet me at work. I said sure. I put some makeup and perfume on. I fixed my hair. I got my badass attitude going on. He messaged me when he was in the parking lot, telling me to look for his red Mustang. So, of course, I made sure that I looked like the tough Corrections Officer Iâm supposed to be, I walked out the front door, andâŚit was like I was struck by a bolt of lightning. I saw him. I saw him standing by his car and he immediately smiled. I tried not to stumble as I walked toward him, but I could feel my knees coming out from under me. I gave him a hugâŚand I swearâŚit was like none other Iâd ever had in my life. We talked for a bit and I could see this light in his eyes. Because of previous issues Iâve had to deal with, which I will talk about later, Iâm never comfortable looking people in the eye. But that nightâŚlooking into those deep brown eyesâŚmy natural reaction was to look away but somehow I kept staring. I canât remember how long we talked because I didnât want it to end, even though I knew when he left, we would end up talking on the phone or texting or something. He later told me after that first meeting that he had wanted to kiss me that night but didnât want to embarrass me since some people I work around had come outside at one point.
Over the next few weeks, whenever I was at work and he was getting off of work, he would come see me in the parking lot. By then, we were hugging and kissing each other hello and goodbye. It was the most simple beginning of a romance that I had ever had. His very presence made me feel better, even on shitty days. I would wake up in the afternoon to go to class and the first thing Iâd look for is a text from him. When he hadnât texted me yet, Iâd be sad. Seeing his name though made my day. On October 26, 2015, we went out on our first official date. I picked him up from his house and we went to Red Lobster. We spent the time smiling at each other and talking. I suggested we go to the mall close by. We went through the mall holding hands. I suggested some cologne for him to buy at Macyâs â Gucci Guilty. I had to go to school that day so I had to drop him back off, but I remember how happy I was. I was so monumentally happy. For the next month, we were calling each other âsorta boyfriendâ and âsorta girlfriend.â Within that time period, I met his familyâŚand his ex-girlfriend. I was so surprised when his stepmother dressed down his ex in front of me and called me his new girlfriend. I turned so beet red. By then, I guess we decided it was official and we eventually declared October 26 as our anniversaryâŚ
