1. “Pronouns dont define your gender!” Then why do you use he/him instead of your biological sex pronouns huh? Oh... because you are a boy. You’re gender is male and therefore you choose to use pronouns that define that.
2. “Clothing does not equal gender!” To some degree I agree with this. If a female wears some tracksuit bottoms and a male wheres a flowery head band, thats fine. But usually actual trans people decide to wear the clothing that their gender equals so they can feel more validated in themselves. You can’t expect be a transgender boy and wear a dress and for no one to transgender you because you... look like a girl and therefore people assume. So... clothing = gender on some scale.
3. “I can be nondysphoric and still be trans!” No you cant be because that implies that being transgender is a choice. Dysphoria is the state of being distressed by the disconnection between someones sex and gender and if you dont have that, what would be the point in transitioning, what would motivate you to transition other than attention? If you are comfortable in your assigned sex, you are cis!
4.” Cis scum need to die!” I dont see any actual transgender people saying this except transtrenders who have internalized cisphobia. They have such hatred for cis people because they are trying so hard not to be cis.
5. “Being trans is great!” No its fucking not. I hate it and everyone else on this planet fucking hates it.
6. “Im a polysexual demiboy and I am valid!” Well you would be if those things had been scientifically proven to actually be real.
7. “Well Im nonbinary trans so I understand you struggle fellow trans person.” Can you please, for the love of God, just say you are nonbinary. Do not say you are trans and nonbinary in the same sentence to me because transgender is...NOT AN UMBRELLA TERM. Transgender for me should be left for the binary and anything else outside of that is different entirely... Mostly because transgenderism is proven to be a real thing, nonbinary hasnt been proven yet so... stay out of our spaces. This isn’t to say Im against nonbinary people... I just would prefer if you didn’t call yourself transgender and act as if you have the same struggles because YOU DONT.