#tenderlumpling

HOW ARE YOU SO BEAUTIFUL AND PERFECT

Ursa Major, Reversed

This card really isn’t about choosing a path - it’s more about the underlying issue you seem to be repeating when trying to make a decision. It’s not about you being good enough, or maybe feelings of inadequacy. It’s that you are limiting yourself by continuing to ask instead of do. Sort of like, to be blunt, waiting around for someone to tell you you can’t do something, so that you can say to yourself, “hah! I knew I shouldn’t have even considered this” when really you have all that it takes.

So, in a round-about wait of answering your question - the advice is to stop wondering and start doing. If you want something to be your “main course” than make it that way. It’s hard work and takes a lot of determination. I’m trying to do freelancing full time and my first proposal just got denied because they already filled the position. It’s easy to get discouraged and tell yourself you’d be better off doing something else. But if it’s really what you want you just need to dive in. Do research, practice, get your name out there and start building a reputation. Give yourself room to fall back if you need to, but don’t limit yourself.

Hello!

Pegasus, Reversed

It’s totally okay to be proud of yourself and your abilities, but don’t let it consume you entirely. Check your motives before you do anything, but don’t stop what you’re doing, because at it’s base, it’s a good thing! 

Lyra, Reversed

Chamaeleon (that’s how the card is spelled lol)

Adapt to your situation to allow new doors and opportunities to open. You may not feel confident in your ability to adapt quite yet, but success will come in time.

5. Name a few songs that reminds you of someone, and who it remind you of.

this is a hard one

a thousand miles by vanessa carlton reminds me of one of my oldest friends. way back in like 7th or 8th grade, a friend of ours wanted to sing this song for the talent show, but was shy so we and another friend agreed to become back up dancers. the dance was gloriously cheesy, but it was super fun and i still remember most of the dance.

emotionless by good charlotte always makes me think of my dad and if you’ve heard the song it’s not hard to understand

the fucking opening to the pgsm live action will always make me think of you b/c you are a moonlight real girl

oh and zutter by gd and top reminds me of @unusuallynormal b/c imagine us playing this while cosplaying corazon and doflamingo

7. Define your “aesthetic”.

umm simple and classic. kinda dull, but still able to give off some feeling. idk if that makes sense. but at the same time, i really like the exciting stuff like bold patterns and stuff. so is balance an aesthetic? ecstatic chill? can that be a thing? whatever it’s a thing now

15. What’s a philosophy you agree with, but fail to live by?

yo i live by every philosophy i agree with. keeping it 100 all day.

but seriously, i don’t always treat people kindly so i kinda wish i did that more

45. Describe your fashion sense.

well i have a lot of jeans and t-shirts, but recently, i’ve been figuring out my own tastes with clothes. i love fall clothing. i love cardigans and layering sweaters with button downs. skinny jeans or slacks that stop at the ankle paired with some nice socks and oxfords. i tend to gravitate toward more neutral colors, but trying to add more color. don’t know what you’d call that, but that’s me. dude i wanna be as stylish as bang sung joon! if i had the money i would dress like him.

61. What question(s) do you love being asked?