âValor is stability not of legs and arms, but courage and the soul.â â Michel de Montaigne
Someone in Elinaâs family who was a veteran? There were plenty in the extended family that was the Rockefellerâs. But there was no one immediate and close to Elina that she held in the highest regard. So why was this holiday even important to an heiress like Elina? After all, when most observed the socialite, the last thing they would have to believe is that she would have an ounce of genuine sincerity towards someone who served for their country. However, despite what the average person would criticize, this day did mean something to the young woman. And the reason that it did came about in a rather unique and unexpected way.Â
Ellie had always been born with a silver spoon, and needless to say, she was offered an enormous amount of opportunities that an average person would not. Yet, to every advantage, there was a disadvantage. For Elina, it was sometimes not having a figure life that could teach her humility. Being born into a name like Rockefeller came with an expectation for greatness. Most of her family were CEOs, politicians, or in some way changing the world. That high-up position put most members on a pedestal, including Elina. She had been expected to think highly of herself to achieve amplitude in society so that she could equally stand out like the rest of her family. On top of being a Rockefeller, she was Lauder too. For that reason, the pressure and weight felt heavier for Elina. So much so that when she was younger, Ellie didnât think she could handle the pressure. She felt so lost, and yet, the Rockefeller heiress couldn't talk to her own family. Elina felt like she had to be perfect. There wasn't any room for less than excellence in a family as grand as Elina's.
However, when Elina was sixteen, she was asked to participate in a commemoration event for Veteranâs Day at the Rockefeller Center at Dartmouth. It wasnât unusual for her family to attend these events. Especially, when so many family members served in the military. Though as previously mentioned, Elina had not been close with those relatives. It wasnât until she met an army vet, Brad Carney, on the day of the event that changed her outlook on not just the holiday but the kind of impact she wanted to make later in life. Brad did not judge the heiress or think ill of her simply because she was born into a silver-spoon status. That day of the event, he only saw a lonely girl who didnât know how to face her personal war. He offered his insight from his days of service. It became a tool of enlightenment for a young girl who didnât know how to confront her fears. Their fears may have seemed so different from each other. Yet retrospectively, they were very similar. Also, it was rare that anyone asked how Elina was feeling. The fact that he not only shared something personal with someone as youthful and naive as Ellie as was, taught Elina an important life lesson and value that day. She then carried that lesson and value with her as she made her way in life.Â
Now, every year Elina continues to co-host commemoration events at the Rockefeller Center at Dartmouth. Brad Carney also assists in leading the discussions on important social topics that regard the military. Recently, Ellie was immensely proud to help co-sponsor their panel about diversity and inclusion in the military. It was a subject that was very meaningful to Brad and opened Elina's eyes even further. He has become a mentor and quiet influence on Ellie's life, even if most do not know who he is. To El, he was a hero. Not just on the battlefront, but for aiding a little girl who was scared to face the world. Regardless of what she was born into, Brad gave her a chance which is what all veterans do when they lay their life down for strangers. Brad showed Elina what it meant to have courage and humility. For that, she would always be grateful.Â