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While he was waiting for 'Umar to come out of his house, he heard 'Umar's wife scolding him and 'Umar quietly listening to her, and not answering her back.

The man turned around and started walking away, muttering to himself: ❝If that is the case with 'Umar, the leader of the believers, who is famous for his uprighteness and toughness, then what about poor me?!❞

At that moment, 'Umar came out of his house and saw the man walking away. He called him and said, ❝What is it you want of me, O man?❞

The man replied: ❝O leader of the believers, I came to complain to you about my wife's bad-temper and how she nags me.

Then I heard your wife doing the same to you, so I turned around, muttering to myself, 'If that is the situation of the leader of the believers, then what about me?❞

Umar Ibn Al-Khaṭṭāb (Raḍi Allāhu ͑anhū) Replied, ❝O my brother, I bear with her because of her rights over me. She cooks my food, bakes my bread, washes my clothes, breast-feeds my child...

And yet none of these are her duty; and then she is a comfort to my heart and keeps me away from forbidden deeds. Consequently, I bear with her.❞

The man said, ❝It is the same with me, O leader of the believers.❞

'Umar Ibn Al-Khaṭṭāb (Raḍi Allāhu ͑anhū) Said: ❝Then, O my brother, be patient with her, indeed this life is short.❞

Announcing: Children’s Outdoor Adventure Trip – Excellent Spring Initiative with A Trip, Islamic Tarbiyyah and Life Skills!

Children’s Outdoor Adventure Trip

Excellent Spring Iniative for our young Brothers!

Location: Borrowdale in the Lake District Activities include:

Orienteering

Night walks

Bushcraft

Mountain Walking

Night time Barbecue

Seaside trip

Daily Islamic Tarbiyyah Course consisting of Aqeedah, Manhaj & Fiqh

Details:

Ages 8-14

April 13-18

£150 covers all Food, Fuel, Lodging & Activities

All Staff DBS…

Isti'jal Adalah keinginan untuk bersegera, Tergesa-gesa; Keinginan untuk melakukan perubahan dengan cepat, Tapi tanpa memperhatikan dan mempertimbangkan situasi.

Beware of isti'jal Karena isti'jal memiliki dampak buruk: Menyebabkan futur; Membuat pengorbanan yang dilakukan menjadi sia-sia; Dan menghambat laju pergerakan (karena bertindak dengan strategi yang tidak matang).

Penyebab isti'jal: - Didorong oleh NAFSU; - Ghiroh iman yang tinggi tetapi emosional (tidak memikirkan dampak); - Menyebarnya kemungkaran dengan cepat tapi kita tidak punya cara mengatasinya, sehingga kita bertindak emosional; - Lemah memikul beban sedangkan perjalanan sangat sulit (mintalah pertolongan Allah dengan mendekatkan diri kepadaNya); - Tidak mempunyai metode; - Mengabaikan sunnatullah; - Melupakan tujuan utama untuk mendapat ridho Allah; - Berteman dengan orang yang isti'jal.

NEW VIDEO: Nurture and Make Dua For Your Children; They Will Benefit you After Death: Dr Abdulilah Lahmami

A reminder on an important topic concerning the way we raise, nurture, treat and educate the children in our homes and communities.

الحمد لله رب العالمين وصلى الله وسلم وبارك على عبده ورسوله نبينا محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه أجمعين A wife’s service to her husband falls within the domain of Ḥusn al-ʿIshrah (good companionship), mutual affection, and cooperative living. The Ḥanāfī Madhhab regarded such service as religiously obligatory (Diyānah), though not enforceable through judicial means (Qaḍāʾan).There are two positions on the…

الحمد لله رب العالمين وصلى الله وسلم وبارك على عبده ورسوله نبينا محمد وعلى آله وأصحابه أجمعين The Islamic moral tradition frequently emphasises Birr al-Wālidayn — filial piety, yet it also articulates, with equal seriousness, the reciprocal duties of parents towards their children. Here, we will discuss and examine the concept of Birr (بِرّ) and its implications for parental responsibility,…