#suuzzz0908

sohereswhatyoumissedlastweek replied to your post “¦ well at least now it’s a good thing i didn’t delete the fucking...”

you need to redo your year?

suuzzz0908 replied to your post “GUESS WHO JUST FLUNKED HIGH SCHOOL”

Can you redo an exam to still graduate?

Nope. I definitely flunked, no redo. You know what’s the worst? I was on the brink of graduating. Apparently a lot of ‘één en twee tiende’

RULES: Once you’ve been tagged, write 92 truths about you. At the end, choose 20 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you.

@maanlanding​ tagged me :)

WHAT WAS YOUR:

last drink: coffee

last phone call: with my mother

last text message:  with @evabunny, asking how to find this haha

last song you listened to:  Foreigner’s  God - Hozier

last time you cried:  Last week?

HAVE YOU EVER:

dated someone twice: Nope

been cheated on: Nope

kissed someone and regretted it: No

lost someone special: Family, yeah.

been depressed: No

been drunk and thrown up: No haha but not for lack of trying

IN THE PAST YEAR HAVE YOU:

made a new friend: Yes :)

fallen out of love: No, because I haven’t fallen in love haha

laughed until you cry: Yes

met someone who changed you: Not really? 

found out who your true friends are: I already knew :)

kissed anyone of your followers: No

GENERAL:

how many people on your tumbr do you know irl: Errr 5?

do you want to change your name: I don’t think so.

what time did you wake up today: Well technically 7 a.m. but I didn’t sleep until like 4, so... And I went back to sleep until 10.

what were you doing at midnight last night: Drinking with friends.

name something you can’t wait for: CHRISTMAS VACATION OH MY GOD.

what is the one thing you wish you could change about your life: Be more flexible; like less stressed out about stuff

what are you listening to right now: My television, on Discovery ID.

what’s getting on your nerves right now: Life plans haha and my big test of tomorrow.

nicknames: Deemper. Or Deem.

relationship: i’m single

zodiac sign: Cancer

pronouns: she/her

favourite tv shows: Supernatural, Game of Thrones, idk plenty.

school: University sophomore; Biomedical Sciences

hair colour: blonde

long or short hair: inbetween

height: 1.64 cm -..-

do i have a crush on someone:  Nope

what do you like about yourself: I’m smart? I like that. 

tattoos: None, but I could see myself getting one someday.

FIRST:

first surgery: To remove my tonsils haha.

first piercing: Ears

first best friend: Demi. Yeah my name is Démi, hers Demi. We had lots of fun confusing people with that.

first sport you joined:  Badminton?

first vacation: Spain, probably. 

first pair of trainers/sneakers: I don’t remember. I wore Reeboks years ago.

RN:

eating: Spinach with fish sticks.

drinking: Orange juice.

listening to: Still my television; South Park.

waiting for:  Me being able to do some schoolwork.

want any kids: I don’t know yet.

want to get married: Yes, once I find someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, I’d like to get married.

career:  I don’t have a career right now haha. But later I’d want to do lab work; research disease.

WHICH IS BETTER:

lips or eyes: Eyes

hugs or kisses: Hugs

shorter or taller: Don’t care :) it’s easier to find people taller than me though 

older or younger: Older

romantic or spontaneous: Both :)

nose, stomach or nice arms: Arms? 

sensitive or loud: Sensitive

hookup or relationship: Relationship i don’t care for hookups

troublemaker or hesitant: Hesistant

HAVE YOU EVER:

kissed a stranger: No

drank hard liqour: Yes

lost glasses or contacts: Yes. I wish it was only once.

broke someone’s heart: I hope not?

been arrested: No

turned someone down: Yes

cried when someone died: Yes.

DO YOU BELIEVE IN:

yourself: Sometimes haha. Depends on my mood.

miracles: No.

love at first sight: I’m not sure.

santa claus: Always.

kiss on the first date: If the mood is right :)

Okay so in the light of the CNN interview I just saw on Tumblr (it's probably months old, sorry), about the one day in NYC video: please understand that catcalling and 'compliments' are not always compliments. Hitting on women after they tell you to quit is not a compliment. I was hit on by two guys who looked at least 40 when I was 17. They grabbed my arm and kept on talking to me, they told me I was lying, that I wasn't 17, I had to be 18 (the legal age of consent here). They didn't believe me and stopped me when I tried leaving. If my friends hadn't been there to help me and pull me away, I would've been absolutely terrified.

Y'know, I don't often post things about myself, but I'd like to post this.

For a long time, I was a tomboy. I was fine with that, and I liked it. But slowly as I grew older, I wanted to try on dresses and skirts too, but I never did. Why? Because I was too afraid of what people would say. I thought that I was known as the tomboy, so I couldn't 'just' become 'girly'. My friends tried for a long time (probably years) to get me to adjust my style to what I liked. And it took a long time, but they finally convinced me that I wasn't suddenly 'changing', if I changed my dressing style to what I liked. It wasn't 'not-me', because it was what I liked.

A while ago I bought my first skirt, and terrified, wore it to a family birthday. And I loved it, No-one really stared, I mean, sure, they were surprised, but they didn't mention it (apart from small compliments now and then), and that was what I was afraid of. Now I wear it more often, and am slowly becoming more comfortable in it.

I thought I couldn't be girly, because I was a tomboy. I do self-defence sport, and I watch horror, and that's not girly, I am not girly. But guess what? I can come to self defence in a skirt and kick just as much ass as when I arrive in jeans.