#suitable suitor

This situation is so sad.

Being feminine is not enough. Having your own money is not enough. We have to learn how to VET men properly.

Vetting a man as a provider is one thing, but don’t forget to vet his character too.

Is he a good person?

Does he have good morals?

Does he have good character?

Is he respectful to you?

Does he care for others?

Is he emotionally mature?

We have to pay attention to red flags and green flags. We have to stop being desperate and rushing when in relationships. Low self esteem, fear and poor vetting is why women end up with these type of abusive men.