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CUTE OWL 

Hey dear,

There is no guarantee. Ever. Relationships are hard like that because there is no guarantee. That’s why people say that successful relationships have many failures. You’ll have to constantly work through your problems and differences with each other, but because you are willing to work through those problems together you are able to still be together. The same will apply to your friendship. It’s really hard to go back to the way things were after you’ve made such a big change and it won’t be easy if it does end messy. However, if you really want to keep her as a friend and if she wants the same, you’ll find your way. You’ll take time off away from each other to establish who you are as an individual again and when you’re ready you’ll reach out to each other as friends. It may work; it may not. Whatever it is, I think you should enjoy what you have now. Enjoy that you’re together. Enjoy that you’re dating who is essentially your best friend. Enjoy that no matter what happens in the future, you are making the best of it now because you’ll only have regrets if you live in fear that it’ll end and never enjoying what you had.

I don’t think it’d be unusual for the both of you to talk about this if it bothers you a lot. I’ve talked about it before with my boyfriends. I’ve told them how I’d like things to be if we ever broke up because I’m insecure and sometimes we keep our words and sometimes we don’t. But whatever it is, it’ll help if you at least talked about it with each other.

Enjoy it. Tomorrow is not guarantee so enjoy today. You may lose it tomorrow but that’s tomorrow’s problem. Don’t waste today worrying about tomorrow’s problem because you will never get today back. So enjoy the relationship you have no. Like Dr. Seuss said, “Don’t cry because it ended. Smile because it happened.” I’m pretty sure that’s the quote. Everything works out the way it’s meant to work out. We can’t change the future but we can enjoy the present.

Always by your side,