styrofoamsouls replied to your post: i hate how so often i am faced with the choice of...
I get you but why do you have to tell people? I mean it is totally not rude to say hey please understand that I don’t feel like talking about this or that but we can totally talk about something else when you feel like it.
I don’t know I just get really awkward about it because so often I get told that I’m closed off as a person or unapproachable, ect. and I really don’t try to do it on purpose I just have really bad social skills and don’t know how to interact with people in a natural way. And then when you add this on top it just feels like another barrier :/Â
I do agree though, I shouldn’t be considered the rude one in this situationÂ












