#strippertips

(All of this is just my personal opinion that I'm experimenting with)

Open ended questions are used as a negotiation tactic that puts all the power in YOUR hands. My job is to find a way to incorporate this with dancing and other sales means.

However, open ended questions are also great for keeping control of a conversation you AREN'T interested in. Here's how it works, in an example.

You: "What do you do?"

Client: "I'm an investment banker."

From here it's important to note how to properly respond. Let me show you a correct versus incorrect approach (in my opinion) to this.

You: "Oh that's great, I plan on going into xyz field!"

No, no, and no again. The opener was perfect, but the rest shifts the focus onto yourself. They're now prompted to ask you questions and gain control. The focus needs to be on them, so they feel like you're interested.

You: "Oh that's great, what do you like about it?"

Noe the focus is on them, they are going to ramble on with an answer and then you're going to follow up with another question. Drop little tidbits about yourself in there but don't let the conversation shift completely.

So how do you make a SALE with this?

I've been looking into it, and theoretically, this is how I think it plays out. (I'm testing this tonight at work)

After you've spent 10-15 minutes rambling on, state something. Don't just ask "do you want a dance?" Start strong.

"Hey, what do you say we do a few dances?"

"Babe let's go get some dances together so we can continue getting to know one another"

Anything and everything that'll work, as long as it gets them to dance.

Take the dance slow, they'll think you're into them that way. If you're just furiously rubbing against them and bouncing they're going to know you just want the quick money. Take your time, tease them, and make eye contact.

Once you get three dances in, pull out the big guns if they have the money for it.

"Want to go somewhere more private?"

And then begins the sales of the VIP room. If you meet resistance, back off and just continue doing normal dances until he's drained and move on.

For anyone wondering, ATL is absolutely not the place for travel dancers. Here’s why:

First, no matter what county you’re in, wherever you get hired, they will give you a paper to take to the police station to issue you a $200 (or more depending on the county) dancer license. This license is PER county. ATL is huge so do your research on which county you want to be in because what’s the point of buying multiple licenses.

Second, the tip outs are high. Especially if you’re under the table, no license it’s double. A popular club wanted to charge us $120 up front for not having a license. Most clubs wanted $70 up front which I thought was a scam, but apparently it’s the norm.

Third, if you’re flying in, or coming in on a bus, you already made a mistake because you need a car if you don’t wanna spend over $100 on uber like we did. Or a rental. ATL IS HUGE and one uber would be like $30!!

We did go to Blue Flame, but these urban clubs seem to only be worth it when you promote yourself. It’s all about who you know and who you have seeing you, I realize that now. Next stop was supposed to be Austin TX but we didn’t even make $$ for the flight.

In retrospect, I would’ve made ATL the last stop if I had done more research. Because we would’ve already made bank from other cities and a license would actually be worth it at that point. Because of this set back, my travel partner has gone home and so have I. Considering going back to Tampa before this weekend to make a bag to continue. I wish I hadn’t left my entire makeup bag back in ATL at the Airbnb. Low Key, I’m feeling soo down but definitely thinking about going solo and road tripping. It is more difficult to get hired when you’re work different girls of different looks and body types, that’s just the industry.

On the plus side! ATL is excellent for free styling and meeting wealthy men and celebrities. Just casually, at upscale bars and clubs. They’re everywhere.

Please Universe show me thousands of dollars on this stripper tour.

About to embark on a stripper tour that I’ve organized. So far it’s just me and another girl but i know women who may meet us in other cities. I am visualizing abundance for the entire trip. Manifesting cleaning up in every city.

We will be going to Atlanta, Austin, Dallas, Phoenix, and Las Vegas if everything goes as planned. Then come back to Tampa and do a weekend trip to Miami. I’d like to network in each city, because it’s so helpful to have friends and acquaintances all over. I will be re reading Ho Tactics (which I’m reading for the first time now, it’s transformative!), on the flights. If I listed one of your cities, I’d love some insight on clubs you’ve tried!

I’ve only been consisting dancing for 3 weeks now, and I’ve only danced in NOLA twice so far, and on a slow Monday in NOLA’s slow season I managed to make more in one night than I ever have in one night...ever. I sold a champagne room on my second day on a Monday and several private rooms in addition to great stage tips and tips in general.

I understand my hustle now, what I need to do and say, who I attract, and I’m much more comfortable with eye contact and stage interaction/presence. My body feels like it’s been run over by a truck, but everything was worth it.

It’s as if something really clicked, I’m not that nervous to go in anymore. It doesn’t matter that I barely know tricks, it’s really true that you need to know what to say at the right time and mind fuck these guys into giving you exactly what you want. In fact, I’m learning that if you simply tell them what you want they will give it to you. I know not every night will be like last night, but that type of energy is what I have to channel every night.