#strippaasks

Seeking to make friends on this app :) Or possible pen pals?

About Me:

Manifestation is a huge part of my lifestyle I take it very seriously

I used this blog to write freestlying tips and experiences, might write a tumblr book on strippa things and the lifestyle

I'm very much a nature girly

Very obsessed with leveling up

SheraSeven raised me, she just doesn't know it

I'm a retired heaux - I married up thus ending my stripper/paid gf career

I embrace my lowkey luxury lifestyle

I own multiple businesses

Queer af

Intrigued by deep conversations

Been reading a lot more lately and loving it

Can be shy irl (working on it :)

Gemini Cancer Cancer

Apply If:

You want more fem girly friends

You have great book suggestions

like to travel

Want to share playlists

On your level up journey

Know you're that girl <3

The most important things to consider:

Don’t ask questions in a way that will give your customer the opportunity to tell you no

Open with questions like “you wouldn’t mind if I sat down here for a second, WOULDNT YOU”

“You wouldn’t mind if I took a breather here, WOULDNT YOU”

“You need some entertainment, DONT YOU”This is a good way to ask questions because you’re not giving your customer an opportunity to tell you no. Nod your head yes while doing this

Only ask yes/no questions with answers that are SURE to be YES. This will subliminally get your customer used to saying yes and primes him for the sale “it’s a nice day, RIGHT” “the girls here are bad as hell, HUH?” Nod your head when you ask these questions

Find out the type of girls,hobbies, general interests he likes (i.e. Work, traveling, sports, doing for fun, etc)

Don’t ask him about politics, religion, or anything else like that. Hell start rambling and wasting your time

Make a direct connection with your customer and whatever he’s talking about(Oh you’re from Cali? I’ve always wanted to go checkout Los Angeles. I have family there! You like the Seahawks? I try to watch them play every once in a while

Find out why he’s there.

Only talk for ½ a song at the very least and 3 songs at the very most

Always maintain eye contact and SMILE. Too many girls I see look bored as hell and act surprised when they’re not closing sales. You’re supposed to make your customer feel like he’s important and that you’re genuinely interested in him

NEVER ask questions when you’re closing. You’re demanding at this point. (“Lets have fun” “okay I want to get naked for you now” “let’s get slutty” ) and THEN you upsell to VIP (you want the boring dance or the sexy dance? You want your dance here or somewhere more private?)

NEVER ask your customer “if he wants a dance” and especially not when you’re first approaching him.

Never talk more than a few words to a sentence at a time. You should do more asking than you should be talking about yourself

Don’t ever mention the word “dance” when you’re closing because that’s all you’re going to get otherwise. You want a VIP so you’re going to be vague and upsell. “Lets have FUN” “enough talking, lets get sexy”. Focus on the words fun, sexy, intimate, and private

Please Universe show me thousands of dollars on this stripper tour.

Funny enough, the bus station dropped us off right there next to Magic City! Maybe it’s a sign to try another urban club.

But on a serious note, how do you hack it in the urban black club environment? Where there are sections and not private rooms? What’s the art of getting chosen for those sections? I kid you not, i tried a club in Tampa where there was maybe over 30k on the floor but not one group chose me for their section. I made absolutely no profit that night. Makes me nervous to try it again because it may be based off of who you know.

I’ve only been consisting dancing for 3 weeks now, and I’ve only danced in NOLA twice so far, and on a slow Monday in NOLA’s slow season I managed to make more in one night than I ever have in one night...ever. I sold a champagne room on my second day on a Monday and several private rooms in addition to great stage tips and tips in general.

I understand my hustle now, what I need to do and say, who I attract, and I’m much more comfortable with eye contact and stage interaction/presence. My body feels like it’s been run over by a truck, but everything was worth it.

It’s as if something really clicked, I’m not that nervous to go in anymore. It doesn’t matter that I barely know tricks, it’s really true that you need to know what to say at the right time and mind fuck these guys into giving you exactly what you want. In fact, I’m learning that if you simply tell them what you want they will give it to you. I know not every night will be like last night, but that type of energy is what I have to channel every night.

Coming to this city was a big risk. A big push out of my comfort zone. I’m starting with absolutely nothing. So depending on what kind of money I see over the next few days will determine how long Instay here. I don’t want to spend more money in hotels, Airbnb, and Uber’s than what I’m actually making here which is not much. I have been observant and learning more and more in the club. How things work, what kind of customers I attract, and even just observing how other girls move about to understand what the hell is going on.

I will say all the girls have been nice! Either they completely ignore me and do their own thing (which is fine I get it lol) or they offer tips and have even tipped me on stage when no customer would. That’s been encouraging.