Do uh.. the Duffers not remember this? This is exactly what Nancy doesn't want, and Exactly what Steve is.

I understand that people change, but I don't think her development should be that she suddenly wants a big family, wants Steve. I love her and Jonathan together, they make a great team, and a cute couple. But I'd rather her be alone than end up with Steve.

Because then it just kinda reduces both of their characters, makes them mostly just about each other, they're almost Flanderizing Steve and making his whole thing Liking Nancy. Wanting Nancy. The only reason why Nancy is probably hestiating is because of the trauma they both faced, and she doesn't have Jonathon (who she also is trauma bonded to) to talk to, in fact feels like their relationship isn't as strong as she thought it was, so she's seeking comfort in Steve.

I personally think they should have Nancy be on her own for a little bit. Away from both Steve and Jonathan. Have her discover a friendship with Robin, and basically have the same moment that El and Max did in season 3. She doesn't need a guy, and its always been shown, but she has also always been In A Relationship.