#stoploving

Love is Purity. It's free from everything that is impure. It's free from everything that has the capacity to pull down or degrade. It's free from preconceptions, expectations and sufferings. It's not in the past. It's not in the future. It's here. It's right now.

Just close your eyes for a few seconds and concentrate on the silence that is existent around. If you concentrate a little deep, you'll be able to hear it even amidst the storm of noises being produced by the materialistic activities of this physical world. And just as you hear the silence, open your eyes and look around.

What do you see?

Look at the green grass with the shimmer of purity resting on it or at the odd piece of dust covered stone lying on the road. Or see the wide open sky with a flock of birds flying freely towards their aim. Do you see Hatred? Or do you see love?

There is no room for hatred when we are our true selves. There is no room for anything that is impure. So how can it be that when in love, we tend to invite feelings that lean to devastate the purity and in turn leave us scarred and empty?

Why do we have feelings of anger, mistrust, possessiveness or jealousy when we are in love?

The answer lies right in the sentence above. It is because we are in Love. All the above mentioned problems would disappear into nothingness, the moment we stop being in love. And instead start being Love itself.

We are a part of this all giving Universe. A tree never asks for anything but gives us all that it has. You will not find animals begging for attention from their loved ones. You won't find a flower charging you to experience its fragrance. The moment we realize this truth that we aren't meant to ask but to give, everything negative would cease to exist.

Love, as it is perceived today, has become a vehicle of suffering. It has lost it's true essence and it stands merely as a device of redundant torture. And the people who claim to be in love are turned into nothing but pitiable beggars who are always beseeching deplorably for attention, for trust, for time.

But Love isn't the instrument of beggars. It is the ornament of Kings who have the courage to give and to give without a second thought.

Love in itself has been pure since eternity and shall continue to stay so. It is we who have associated, over the years, contradictory emotions like anger or frustration to love. And now it's again us, who are questioning the purity of the emotion.

It's time to understand the true nature of this blissful feeling. It's time to start being Love.

Look at the person who you've been in love with. On the face of the person discover purity of intent. Discover the purity of Love. Stop expecting. Stop hoping. Stop Controlling. Instead of imagining a future with them, begin enjoying the present. Stay in the moment and dedicate the moment to unconditional love.

It's you who has decided to share your love. So, it must never matter to you what the other person resonates. Stay detached from what is coming back in return and keep loving. Go on loving without asking or expecting anything in return. Do not try to posses the person. Do not try to enslave them. Let them be free. And let them have the strength of your love to enjoy this freedom.

You are the King, who has understood your potential of infinite love. But you don't have to express your stature to your beloved. Let your actions speak for you. Let them fall in love with the purity of your love and this purity will cleanse their own feelings.

Love is not meant to be suffered. It is meant to be enjoyed. So, stay connected deeply to your beloved, but at the same time have the highest level of detachment from expectations. What the other person would do or feel isn't something that you can control. So let it be. All you can control is your emotion.

So, plunge yourself in the quest to make your love free and pure. And within no time, you shall discover that the Bliss of Love has taken over your breaths. And now when you'll look back, there wouldn't even be the slightest traces of those ugly emotions that held you back.