Hello Dear Friend.

I blocked over 129 people yesterday, so I feel really comfortable speaking freely to you .

Firstly,

In the future do NOT shit where you eat.❌

You should never have agreed to allowing another woman to fuck your husband .

It appears you have given him permission to cheat .

I have never seen these type situations end well.

Usually, the primary couple disintegrates over time .

A couple at my old kink club had a baby , and the side partner was convinced the baby was his .

He harassed them to high heavens .

My Daddy said he had seen enough and we are no longer involved in kink clubs , groups , etc.

It feels really good, tbh.

Remember, unlike porn stars , you are dealing with real people , and real emotions.

Back to your husband.

You are going to have to fight for him dear friend.

Things to know : most men are like children …they need ALOT of attention.

This is why porn men of Tumblr go on and on . They are really not abusive…their needs are unmet in their personal life .

Try giving your hubby more attention.

Personally, my Daddy was so snappy at me lately .

I have really been busy at work and my leg has been hurting badly .

I knew he needed to feel special , so I invited him to a work function I usually never attend .

I showed him off and introduced him as my partner (he loved that ) ,

the next day I asked him to met me at the fried fish joint I love , for lunch (it is really a barber shop for black men)

He did and we had a good time .

Why did I do this dear friend ?

I was subconsciously letting my Daddy know he was important to me , and affirming that everyone that surrounded me knew I was his .

Later on that week, we had a quick dinner (peanut butter and jelly sandwiches…it was a work week…pls no judgments) .

After dinner I played Waylon Jennings (my Daddy’s fav artist and mine too)

We had a very pleasant evening and now my Daddy no longer has an attitude.

His needs are met.

Figure out how to do this with your husband.

You have leverage because you are his wife and the mother of his children .

Use it .

In the future as we country people like to say

Never fatten a frog for a snake 🐍 (other partners you allow into your relationship are the snakes 💡)

Good Luck