One of the biggest problems that has caused a ripple effect of more problems throughout history is the fact that people are expected to not show their emotions. Because when you are vulnerable you get labeled.
We should be teaching everyone how to express their emotions in a healthy way.
When we don’t express emotions, it ends up bursting out. And/or it turns into anger and fear that seeps out and poisons everyone around us.
Then because you feel like IU will be judges for showing emotion, you cannot figure out who you are.
Not being comfortable with yourself makes you point to someone else and try to make them feel less than just so you can feel better.