Thank you for this. It means a lot, especially since you and I have been following each other pretty much from the start.

Obviously, I decided to stay on and to stay active. I did my best to delete personal information and a number of selfies with friends, partners, or my daughter. One thing I want to make clear, especially to my friends in the lgbtq+ and kink communities, my concern was never over these aspects of my life and identity being public. I have no shame associated with who I am. It was completely based on a total stranger, with whom I had never had any interaction, spending considerable time to piece together my private info and then message me with it as if I would find that kind of stalking hot. I have not only myself to consider, but others as well. I’ve also had the unfortunate experience of being stalked irl, so definitely not something I take as a compliment.

Anyway, my experience on here has been mostly wonderful. It is has been so because of people like you. ❤️

I can only guess at potential mutual friends... And even then, have you tried scrolling through someone's friend list trying to find a familiar face amongst all the badly taken profile pictures? It's not easy.

Wait... Other people do this, right? I have been searching for HOURS. They might not even have facebook (I did dabble with twitter and Google, but that was fucking useless). This is normal.

Fuck. I come across as some crazy stalker, don't I?

Dear God,