#spidey fandom

That version of spiderman was literally my childhood and the reason why i started liking superheroes in the first place.

Its humour is usually targeted as being bad, but I grew up watching it in a different language and they pulled it off greatly. Its fourth wall breaks were the best part about it, and the fact that spiderman acted like a teenager was perhaps the reason i resonated to the series so much.

I loved the avengers cameos. Esp the hulk ones.

Along with the deadpool series.

It's sinister six, carnage and the collector arcs are so great and according to me, done so well.

But my heart really goes out to that peter because he refrained from telling his identity becuz he didn't want to hurt his family and friends yet most of the times they ended up being the villians he had to fight.

He wasn't even appreciated well enough at all and was constantly targeted by daily bugle.

Yet he chose to stay. He chose to keep being a hero, a savior, although he wouldn't ever put himself on that pedestal seriously and instead would say that it's his duty.

He's so great because despite of the tragedies he faced, he chose to keep going on the right path.

My heart really goes out to all the peter parkers.

I’m going to say this up front so nobody tries to “well actually” me into the ground. I have not been reading current Spider-Man. I fell off a while ago. So everything I know about this whole Paul situation is secondhand, absorbed through osmosis because it has gotten so loud that you can’t avoid it if you’re even adjacent to Spider-Man fandom.

I’m a hardcore Spider-Man fan. I love Peter Parker. I love Mary Jane Watson. I love Peter and MJ together. I hated One More Day when it happened and I still hate it now. That part hasn’t changed.

What has changed is how I look at some of the reaction to this Paul guy.

For those of you who somehow missed it, Paul shows up in the recent Amazing Spider-Man Vol. 6 (Zeb Wells run) and, for all intents and purposes, he is the guy MJ is with after she and Peter are no longer together. There are alternate dimension shenanigans, time displacement, kids, the whole thing. Again, I have not read it, so I am not here to litigate the execution of the story.

What I am here to talk about is the reaction.

Because the reaction is not normal.

And I don’t mean people being upset. Fans get upset all the time. I was upset about One More Day. That’s part of being invested in a story. What I mean is the specific kind of anger, the tone, the way Paul has been turned into this almost mythic symbol of betrayal.

For a long time, I rejected the idea that some Spider-Man fans project themselves onto Peter and view MJ as some kind of surrogate girlfriend. I thought that was dismissive. I thought it was people trying to psychoanalyze fans instead of engaging with the actual criticism.

I don’t reject it anymore.

Because with Paul, it is impossible not to see.

There is a segment of the fandom that is not reacting like readers who dislike a story choice. They are reacting like they got dumped.

Paul is not just “a poorly written character” or “a contrived plot device” to them. Paul is that guy. The guy the girl chose instead of you. The guy who shows up after you thought you had something real and suddenly you’re on the outside looking in.

And here’s the thing. That feeling is real. A lot of people have lived that. Especially the kind of dorky, socially awkward guys that Spider-Man has historically resonated with. Peter Parker was the ultimate “that could be me” character. Smart, awkward, overlooked, gets the girl anyway. That fantasy has been baked into the character for decades.

So when you introduce Paul, you are not just introducing a new love interest for MJ. You are breaking that fantasy in a very direct way.

Now, does that mean all criticism of the storyline is invalid. No. Not even a little.

From everything I have gathered, there are plenty of legitimate storytelling complaints. Skipping over the breakup. Dropping readers into the middle of a status quo without context. Using alternate dimension time shenanigans to force a separation. Repeating the same editorial mandate we saw with One More Day where Peter and MJ cannot be allowed to move forward.

Those are real issues.

But they are not what is driving the intensity of this reaction.

The intensity comes from something more personal. Something a lot less comfortable to admit.

It is the projection.

It is seeing Peter as yourself, MJ as the girl you wanted, and Paul as the guy she chose instead.

Once you see it through that lens, the scale of the backlash makes a lot more sense. It stops being just about comics and starts being about people working through their own baggage in public.

And to be clear, recognizing that does not change how I feel about Peter and MJ. I still think they belong together. I still think breaking them up over and over again is creatively bankrupt. I still think One More Day did long-term damage to the character that Marvel has never really recovered from.

But it does change how I look at the discourse.

Still No?

How bout now?

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To all the Spidey fans who haven't read this article yet.