These ladies are Queens
Growing numbers of Chinese women are legally changing sexist names given to them at birth by parents who wanted a son after authorities loos
âSecond only to menâ is my name: more Chinese women ditch sexist names from boy-seeking parents amid feminist awakening
Women in China are legally changing their names amid a wider awareness of gender issues and loosened restrictionsThey had names which reflect a parental desire for boys â Zhaodi: âbeckon to younger brotherâ, Yingdi: âwelcome younger brotherâ
âAfter an entire week, I finally succeeded in changing my name with the authorities. Let the stars shine in the coming years â Itâs never too late!â wrote 20-year-old Chen Xingwan in celebration on her social media account.
For the past two decades, the young Chinese woman has been officially called Chen Yanan instead â ya meaning âonly second toâ and nan meaning âmenâ.
According to her father, who gave her the name, it means âa boy is coming after this babyâ, while her mother, who had no say in the matter, interpreted it as âyou are no worse than a boyâ.
Sharing her new identity document on Xiaohongshu, Chinaâs equivalent of Instagram, the university student from eastern Chinaâs Anhui province said she hoped it would end a long period of self-doubt and start a new chapter in her life.
Chen is just one of many Chinese women who want to change the sexist names their parents gave them to reflect a preference for sons.
The trend has gained momentum over the past year amid a wider feminist awakening and loosened restrictions on legal name-changing for adults in mainland China.
At the start of last year, China enforced its first Civil Code allowing adults to choose their own names, as long as the words used are, ânot against fundamental social valuesâ.
Due to the traditional preference for a male heir in Chinese society, girls names which convey a familyâs wishes for a boy were popular both before and during the one-child policy.
The policy, which wasnât completely abandoned until 2015, limited all urban couples to one child, while those in the countryside were allowed a second chance if their first child was a girl.
This resulted in many parents giving their newborn daughters names such as Yanan: âsecond only to menâ, Zhaodi: âbeckon to younger brotherâ, Yingdi: âwelcome younger brotherâ and Aidi: âlove younger brotherâ.
Another is Sheng-nan which means âbetter than menâ. This is usually interpreted as âdespite the fact that you are a girl, you are better than a boyâ, which is based on the sexist presumption that men are normally superior to women.
According to the Ministry of Public Security, of female citizens bearing the three most common family names in mainland China â Wang, Li, and Zhang â almost 32,000 are named âsecond only to menâ.
More than 13,000 women with these family names are called âbeckon to younger brotherâ.
âSince childhood, all my teachers would ask me the same questions when seeing my name for the first time; âDid your father want a boy? Do you have a younger brother?â,â said Chen .
Her younger brother came three years after her and was given the name Yongkuan, âIt is a very normal name that wonât bring any trouble to him,â she said.
Chen, however, said she suffered significant social stigma because of her name.
Her classmates gave her nasty nicknames associated with the word men, such as âmenâs roomâ, she said.
âIâve hated my name since I was young. When I was asked to introduce myself, I was always unwilling to say my name,â she said.
âFor some people, their names are just a symbol and may not play an important role in their daily life. But for many others, they may have been hurt because of their names. There could be some bad outcomes psychologically,â Chen said.
Many women in mainland China share Chenâs sentiments and have posted about their name-changing experiences with photos of their new ID cards attached online.
They include 22-year-old Zhang Yingdi from Tianjin who became Zhang Yuge, and a 24-year-old Lin Aidi from Guangdong province in southern China, who herself Lin Lisha.
Huang Chunyu, a retired professor in Chinese culture and history, said a personâs given name often conveys the giverâs expectations and understanding of what constitutes a good life.
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After the era of the one-child policy, women became more independent and confident. They refuse to be subordinate to men and believe they are as good as, or even better than men,â he said, adding, âso this trend is a true reflection of social development.â
University student Chen said she was happy that her parentsâ attitude had changed over time.
They were supportive when she told them she wanted to have a new name, she said.
âAs they grow older, they are not as rigid as before. They not only agreed with my decision, but even helped me pick my new name,â she said.














