Ooh! Ooh! Alsoāsorry, I keep thinking about your Lambden question and why not Yenskier or Geraskier. I slept on it and now thereās more. Please forgive the bombardment. Also feel free to give this a pass in replying, I realize I have some unpopular opinions.
To me, Iāve often found Fandom Jaskier to be a bit childishly manipulativeāheās pouted and simpered until heās gotten what he wants, until his strong-willed partners roll their eyes and say āoh alright.ā Thatās not a dynamic I enjoy and I canāt help but feel that, in those scenarios, something disingenuous is happening. Thatās my own interpretation, and fully acknowledge that others mayāand probably doāperceive that dynamic differently. No judgement on their enjoyment of it. But itās not for me.
On the flip side of things, it also sometimes feels like the Bard pairings only work because heās good at letting certain things roll off his back that he really... shouldnāt be letting roll off his back.
Iāve rarely seen Lambden operate the same way. Theyāre both adults, on equal footing with each other. Yeah theyāre sarcastic with each other and theyāre both assholes but they arenāt to each other where it counts. If one of them brushes the other off, thereās a gear shift of āhang on, whatās going on, talk to me?ā or āIām going to let that slide because I know you didnāt mean thatā or āwhat do you need right now?ā Whateverās being worked through, they work through it together, even if that means giving space. But there is a give and take in their desire to be there for each other. Plus thereās something about them thatās... shiny. I donāt know how else to describe it. Itās fizzy and shiny and very very sexy.
Margaret, yet again, you blow me away with your analysis.
I completely agree with your reflections on Jaskierās relationships. Itās one reason that I struggle to write him anymore, because if you lean towards Netflix, then his relationship with Geralt is completely devoidĀ of any real meaning. Yes, you can look at the mountain, and theĀ ābath sceneā, but snapshots do not a relationship make. Anything I build for Jaskier and Geralt from Netflix, I have to do all the heavy work myself and Netflix canon gives me camomile oil and ādo what pleases youā.Ā
Dandelion and Geralt, though? Books and games? I adore it. Absolutely. And whenever I write the two of them interacting? Itās usually with these influences in mind. Some of my favourite stories from the fandom are Dandelion and Geralt, either romantic or platonic.
Most of the Lambden I have read is definitely built around communication, the picking apart of insecurities and the forging of something healthy, if not necessarily alwaysĀ functional.
Note: fandom isnāt a religion (or at least Iām pretty sure I didnāt sign up for a cult), I feel thatĀ āunpopularā opinions have a place and should be aired, please never apologise for them, and you know what? If I lose followers for discussing canon, fanon, personal preference and whatever (respectfully, I might add), then... fine? Off they pop. Please never apologise for sending me takes, sweet. We wonāt always agree on everything, but youāre awesome and I value your input.