#smartpeoplethings

maturing = realizing that you’re okay with people not having as high perception of you ....because ppl who judge are probably just outwardly performing, meaning it’s an attempt to cover up for what they lack thereof… becoz while you continue to be more secure in yourself and understand that just your existence is valid enough, what you do underneath your seemingly unrefined surface will show and eventually the “performers” will have nothing to say because you were really just a great actor to begin with all along.