Life I have been noticing is this interaction between mirrors. This earthly experience is like one big fucked up fun house and the people that come into your life are the mirrors and their actions/feelings are reflections. These reflections/actions come to be for a variety of reasons, but the most notable seems to be emotion depending on ones perception of a situation. For instance, a person might have developed feelings or learned a behavior they are “entitled” to because of the his/her experience, and usually the people they surround themselves with most. They most often have come to learn there is a “wrong” or “right” way to do or be just about anything. This is the most extreme of this case but I am using it to try and describe what I am talking about. It is often why people either like or dislike. Hate or love. Most people I have found are this way, with little give in between. The less amount of give, the more extreme the feeling/action/reflection. This is definitely a place I come from, but this realization has helped to lessen my extremities. 

This perspective didn't come over night, and there is no way I can label it as fully developed. I am merely sharing my present state of awareness thanks to my series of unfolding life events, all of which have been necessary to get me where I am consciously today. 

My consciousness now aware of these reflections, is able to see the person behind the action and understand that I often don't understand where they are coming from.  It is simply the reflection of their perception.