To answer your first question. Yes i was first. So HA!!
To answer the follow up. Tom, and in correlation Sabine, are suffering (to a lesser extent) from what I like to call "Absent/Oblivious Parent Syndrome".
Their not as bad as, let's say, the parents in Fairly Odd Parents or Family Guy, but the fact that Miraculous Ladybug has a huge portion in the Western Animation section of the Adults are Useless TVTropes page should be telling.
There's even a section for deconstruction fics, aka SALT!!! What else do I have to say?
Unless explained fully in canon, they are at best ignorant of her social interests and personal issues (emotional and physical) and at worst deliberately neglectful until it personally affects them.
And I refuse to accept "the miraculous did it" as an excuse. If they wanted to pull that card, they should have introduced the concept AT THE BEGINNING OF THE SERIES WHEN TIKKI WAS EXPLAINING IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF BEING A MIRACULOUS HOLDER!!! Fu is also on my shitlist for this reason but I don't think we need an excuse to be mad at him by now do we?
Oh yeah I’ve seen similar criticisms before
There’s some more to touch on but that’s for another time